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Seeking penpal & Chat

Hello, I am 55 year old retired woman with lots of free time on my hands. I have lived alone for the past two years.


I would love to have penpals and possibly someone to chat with.


Created By on 09/12/2022

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Blue2
7th Dec 2024 21:39:07
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Hi I’m 68 year old lady in the uk looking for a chat. I love gardening and walking and just chatting
Response from Brisbaneoutbound made on 8th Dec 2024 07:29:55
Hi, I'm in good ol OZ and I'm always up for a chat. Brisbane is currently going thru a hot spell. It hit 37 degrees today so I went to Southbank for a well earned swim. Santa never really comes to Qld, he'd die of heat stroke.
Mark (the guinea pig tickler)
Response from Blue2 made on 8th Dec 2024 09:27:14 > @Brisbaneoutbound
Hi it’s cold and very windy here…… no heatwave for us!
Response from soloman made on 8th Dec 2024 10:29:58 > @Blue2
Hi Blue2, hope that you find some people to chat with. I know that this site
can be a bit confusing I found that when I joined.
I am male 76 years young haha and live in Hampshire, was up in the North
West last year, but moved back here in the summer.
Am here most days, as am chatting to others in the chat room. So feel free
to chat, all best wishes, Terry.
Response from Brisbaneoutbound made on 8th Dec 2024 11:55:55 > @Blue2
A new week begins. I might go for a bike ride if it's not too hot.
Response from Blue2 made on 8th Dec 2024 12:09:28 > @soloman
Thanks ! Yes I am confused about where to go! I can’t seem to get into chat. I’m from greater Manchester but I still say Lancashire! It’s very windy today and cold, but managed a quick walk wrapped up warm.
Response from Blue2 made on 8th Dec 2024 12:11:08 > @Brisbaneoutbound
Wish I could go for a bike ride but it’s toooo windy but managed a walk all wrapped up.
Response from soloman made on 8th Dec 2024 12:20:10 > @Blue2
Hi Blue2, Yes very cold and windy here as well, I was in Wigan, so not far
from you, am now in the South nearer to siblings.
You can open a chat by just scrolling down to chat room, then you can chat to people on a one to one basis without other’s viewing it.
Hope you find it, yes wrap up warm, and take care, Terry.
Response from Blue2 made on 8th Dec 2024 12:36:04 > @soloman
Thanks Terry. Never been to Wigan Pier! Your wise going south it’s a bit warmer
Response from VanessaR1 made 1 days ago > @soloman
Good morning from dismal Anglesey. I note that you're in Hampshire, I'm originally from Southampton but moved here 22 yrs ago. We're a similar era, so I wonder if we frequented the same venues in the 60's? I love listening to Boom Radio and singing along (very badly!). It keeps me and my little dachshund company after being widowed 2 yrs ago. My daughter and her family are still in Southampton, so I'm spending Xmas there.
Response from Blue2 made 1 days ago > @VanessaR1
Hi I’m not from Hampshire? I’m from Bolton. I used to go to Llandudno a lot we used to love rambling over the Orme all day and walk to Conwy. Anglesey is lovely. I’m going to my eldest son’s for christmas
Response from soloman made 1 days ago > @VanessaR1
Hi VanessaR1, yes it’s me Terry, am back in Southampton, having moved
here in August, after spending one year in Wigan, Lancs.
Have never been to Anglesey, my father was born just outside of Swansea,
so am half Welsh haha.
My retirement flat is on the Winchester Road, so your daughter will know
the area probably. The Christmas market is on until the 5th January so you
will have a chance to see it, ( bring plenty of money, things there are not
cheap ) so enjoy the rest of your evening, and have a wonderful Xmas with
your daughter, all best wishes, Terry. PS I was born in Reading Berkshire, so
did not visit the venues you mentioned, spent most of the sixties in the
Army, mostly abroad.
Queenieto5
13th Dec 2024 16:38:56
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Hello Elioquent1 67 and retired from the big state of Texas!! Would love to chat!
Lakeman
20th Aug 2024 18:58:11
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Hi, I'm 66 male Canada looking to chat.
Inquisitivity
23rd Jun 2023 22:05:15 (Last activity: 15th Aug 2024 09:31:47)
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hi, Im a 45 year old male from cheshire in England, also come online to try and make contact with people to communicate with because Im lonely and have very few people I can approach for interaction or social chats, I would like to chat if your still seeking someone to write to you, im happy to chat here, email, write letters or make phonecalls.

kind regards
Response from Gazelle 777 made on 9th Aug 2024 12:58:24
Hi, sorry to hear you're alone! Not nice.
Response from Buick29 made on 15th Aug 2024 09:31:47 > @Gazelle 777
Morning from Scotland, rather wet today and set to continue. I worked out of Gulfport MS for almost 15 years, reall enjoyed that time o my life. Semi retired now am 72 yrs young and on my own also.
I can write,chat, whatever, whenever, no probs. I’m guessing there is at least an 8 hour time difference between us. But im sure well manage to get a fe words in.

Have a great day,
Bill
JimboM
7th Apr 2024 22:40:53 (Last activity: 21st Apr 2024 20:21:53)
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Hi lam new here and am trying to get the hang of this looking for penpals to chat and share interests, l like fossil hunting and a wide variety of music, steam trains are also a favourite, my best to you. Retirement gives lots of time to do what you should have done ages ago.
Response from JimboM made on 21st Apr 2024 20:21:53
Heading south for a few days hopefully may get some nice fossils and rocks, The weather does not bother me i have a jacket, Ha! But I think sunny days are expected. Foxes came in the garden again last night with their young cubs very nice to watch the playfulness,
Tony02062
14th Jan 2024 18:42:14 (Last activity: 2nd Feb 2024 17:09:19)
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Feel free to write me
Response from LauraC60 made on 21st Jan 2024 03:21:25
Hello
Response from Iss made on 2nd Feb 2024 15:10:30
Hi Tony02062 . Just browsing through Silver Surfers and thought I would pop in and say Hello and how are you with this horrible weather I am from Scotland. Where are you from yourself? Iss
Response from Tony02062 made on 2nd Feb 2024 17:09:19 > @Iss
Hey,sorry weather is bad,I'm in Massachusetts it's cold,cloudy, raw
Raymer
26th Jan 2024 10:20:34
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Hi Eloquent1, I am 70 and live with hubbie. We both still work but only part time. I also volunteer, 1 lady in person the other 3 I do telephone befriending. It's nice as you learn alot about the other person and become friends. During lockdown I had a couple and did actually go and visit them, from a distance just to see who I was speaking to.
Have you got any hobbies and what part of the country are you in?
Would love to chat more and learn all about you.
Best wishes, Raymer
dbot
24th Dec 2023 02:43:56 (Last activity: 21st Jan 2024 03:20:24)
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Hi, I'm 65 and divorced 10 years. Hope you have a Merry Christmas!
Response from LauraC60 made on 21st Jan 2024 03:20:24
Hello
sorry so long in responding. Been a hectic few weeks.
I am 63 and divorced 19 years. Have 2 adult children and 1 grandchild.
Mandy18h
22nd Dec 2023 11:38:13
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Good morning , I am Mandy18h, I am 67, a widow for nearly two years, I am in surrey , so looking for Lady penpals & chat from surrey, Hampshire or sussex. I have no children, but owned by my little dog . Anyway have a good christmas & new year Mandy18h
Lucelastic
21st Dec 2023 15:33:46
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Hiya, I too live alone, am in South Derbyshire, most neighbours work so impossible to meet new friends since I moved here.

Am an animal lover and a keen gardener also DIY, do my own decorating

[email protected]
Komorebi
28th Dec 2022 23:48:23 (Last activity: 17th Jun 2023 01:30:26)
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Hi, I love penpal n chatting so I'll put my hand up and say pick me!

I am 60, female, live alone (sometimes love it, sometimes hate it). Have two adult children and 1 grandson who's a baby of 1.

If you're still seeking penpals let me know 🙂
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Response from LauraC60 made on 29th Dec 2022 18:51:05
Nice to meet you. Yes I am still looking and open for chatting. Hope to hear from you soon
Response from Micbrown made on 13th May 2023 02:50:55 > @Sally - Silversurfer's Editor
Hello Sally
Mike here , looking for a friendly chat
Response from LauraC60 made on 17th Jun 2023 01:30:26 > @Micbrown
Willing to chat anytime
Micbrown
13th May 2023 02:49:46
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Rob1971
6th Jan 2023 15:40:04 (Last activity: 7th Jan 2023 03:12:27)
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Hi, how great to have retired at such a young age, I'm 51 years old joined a few chat sites before but found they are all trash.
I love talking so if you fancy a chat.
I'm just here to make friends like yourself.
Rob
Response from Sally - Silversurfer's Editor made on 6th Jan 2023 17:01:41
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Response from LauraC60 made on 7th Jan 2023 03:12:27
Hi Rob and welcome.

I am up for a chat most anytime.
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11th Dec 2022 19:06:29 (Last activity: 20th Dec 2022 01:45:38)
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Response from Eloquent1 Original Poster made on 13th Dec 2022 01:14:12
Hi Terry,

I agree with you. Experience and wisdom comes with age therefore in my opinion age is just a number. Please let me know when you would like to chat.
Response from Eloquent1 Original Poster made on 14th Dec 2022 21:08:58
Hi Terry,

I live in Arizona. I chose the area because of the weather. I get the rare dusting of snow every couple of years. It seems as though your holiday plans are already in place. Do you wish for a White Christmas? You stay safe and warm as well. Chat with you soon.
Response from Eloquent1 Original Poster made on 15th Dec 2022 19:03:10
Hi Terry,

I agree with you about a White Christmas. I have never liked cold weather either. I grew up in the Midwest. I enjoyed watching the commercials advertising the palm trees of Florida so at 19 I planned and executed my escape from the cold weather. I joined the military chose Florida and never looked back.

How did your Christmas get together go?
Response from Ariadne made on 16th Dec 2022 09:35:13 > @Eloquent1
Hello E ,,,,,I am here to join you for nonsense conversation ,,'cos it's nice to know there is someone out there ,to keep my brain occupied ...it's incredibly cold here South Yorkshire ...and
I am trying to drum up some enthusiasm to leave the building .and do a bit of shopping
Watch this space ,,,in case I ever find it again !!!!!!
Response from Eloquent1 Original Poster made on 16th Dec 2022 15:52:01
Hi Terry,
I am glad to hear you had a good time at your Christmas get together. Maybe you will a raffle prize at your next party.

It has been cool here also. There has been frost the last couple of mornings but it warms up fairly quickly therefore I can not complain.

What warm destination are you expecting to get away to in the New Year?

Take care and keep warm
Response from Eloquent1 Original Poster made on 16th Dec 2022 16:01:13 > @Ariadne
Hi Ariadne,

I can definitely understand where you are coming from on keeping our brain’s occupied. I hope you are able to get out and get some shopping done since there are only nine days left before Christmas.

You can bookmark this place to find it again. There should be an arrow to your right. Click the first icon.

Take care
Response from Ariadne made on 17th Dec 2022 08:21:23 > @Eloquent1
Morning ELO , easier than your full title , and of course name of a rock group Electric Light
orchestra . I did not go out ,well, just ,to check how safe the drive was,, still too many crunchy
bits dodgy for a rear wheeled drive car , ,the bookmarks thing does work ,most of the time ,,like today The problem with this site ,there are so many avenues to wander down ,,
Just had a peek out . Exactly like yesterday FREEZING .
I 'm probably the only woman who dislikes shopping unless it's absolutely necessary ,as yesterday was ,I won't starve ,a pantry full of tins ,a freezer ,almost full of interesting items. that I am slowly eating my way through
As Christmas gets nearer so does a dental appointment ,,What is it about dentist's that brings
out the Wuss factor ,,,???? Coffee ????
Of course . , .
Response from Eloquent1 Original Poster made on 17th Dec 2022 22:33:44
Hi Terry,

Turkey sounds like fun to visit. Have you ever visited Turkey? I do not have any plans to travel next year.

My son will visit for awhile both days since he lives a short distance away. My daughter, son-in-law, and two grandchildren ages 4 years old and 6 months live in Virginia so I will have to settle for talking to them by phone both days. My four year loves to sing so I will enjoy her Christmas Carols and hopefully hear some cooing from the six month old.

Take Care
Response from Eloquent1 Original Poster made on 17th Dec 2022 22:40:08 > @Ariadne
Hi Ariadne,

I am sorry to hear it is not safe to leave your home however at least you have plenty of food. I also do not enjoy shopping especially in store. Do you venture out for gifts or buy them online?
I agree about the dentist. I do not believe anyone enjoys an appointment.

Take Care
Response from Eloquent1 Original Poster made on 19th Dec 2022 00:55:06
Hi Terry,

I’m glad to hear it has warmed up a bit for you. Rain is always better than snow unless you want to go skiing 🙂 The weather forecast here was in the 50’s and sunny. The forecast for Christmas should be in the 60’s.

That is a bummer to have a strike on Christmas Eve but I suppose the timing was taken into consideration to get the maximum impact and necessary attention it deserves.


I know the next coming days will be busy therefore if I do not hear from you before Christmas, Have a Merry Christmas!

Take care and keep dry.
Response from Eloquent1 Original Poster made on 20th Dec 2022 01:45:38
Hi Terry,
Although it is windy I’m glad to hear you are still only dealing with rain vs. snow. Hopefully you will have everything you need upon arrival at your sister’s house.
I do miss the days when my children were young and seeing the delight on their faces as they opened their presents. My granddaughter is very excited and counting down the days. I created a Chatroom to communicate in. If you are interested, it is labeled Greetings Across the pond.

Take Care
LauraC60
12th Dec 2022 16:36:44 (Last activity: 14th Dec 2022 07:59:35)
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Hi Eloquent. I am looking for penpals
Response from Eloquent1 Original Poster made on 13th Dec 2022 01:09:15
Hi Laura,

Just let me know how you want to communicate.
Response from LLowdell made on 13th Dec 2022 08:49:58
Hi Laura, I've just set up a virtual chat/message room for myself and Eloquent to chat in. It's like having a penpal but the messages are sent virtually and you don't need to wait for the postman to deliver the letter.
I find it's easier to keep up with the conversation as it's only between the people in the room. I'd be happy to set up a chat for the two of us or can add you to the room I've set up with Eloquent if you prefer? Comment and let me know. I'm F, 58 living in South Yorkshire, England.
Response from LauraC60 made on 14th Dec 2022 05:12:08 > @Eloquent1
Doesnt matter. We can continue here or start private chat
Response from LauraC60 made on 14th Dec 2022 05:13:15 > @LLowdell
Either way is fine with me.
Response from LLowdell made on 14th Dec 2022 07:59:35 > @LauraC60
Hi LauraC. I've added you to a group chat called: Let's Chat/Virtual Penpals
Hopefully you will get an invite.

I've added Eloquent1 also but she's either not found it or been online to see my message.
LLowdell
11th Dec 2022 17:11:35 (Last activity: 13th Dec 2022 08:03:21)
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Hi Eloquent1

I'm fairly new to Silversurfers. Always happy to have a chat. I've only just discovered how to have private chats with individual or groups of people. I kind of like the chat feature because I know what I write is only being read by the people I'm chatting with.
Response from Eloquent1 Original Poster made on 13th Dec 2022 01:05:59
Hi Lowdell,

I am also new. Let me know when you are up for chatting and I will try and figure out how to use the feature.
Response from LLowdell made on 13th Dec 2022 07:54:59 > @Eloquent1
Morning E. If you'd like me to set up a chat room, I have only recently discovered how to do that and I can add you (and anyone else who wants to join) to the chat group. It allows you to send messages (chat) in a more private area. You don't need to be online at the same time to use the chat feature. It's more like a messaging system that only those you invite to the group can read and participate in the message chain.
Response from LLowdell made on 13th Dec 2022 08:03:21 > @Eloquent1
I've started a chat room called: Let's Chat/Virtual Penpals
I've added you to the room.
crazy1
11th Dec 2022 21:27:34 (Last activity: 13th Dec 2022 01:17:40)
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hi, i misspelled that last message, sorry, hi penpal
Response from Sally - Silversurfer's Editor made on 11th Dec 2022 23:14:16
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Response from Eloquent1 Original Poster made on 13th Dec 2022 01:17:40
Hi Crazy1,

How would you like to communicate?
casper101
11th Dec 2022 05:01:28 (Last activity: 13th Dec 2022 01:07:57)
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well come on in and we will find something to talk about.
Response from Sally - Silversurfer's Editor made on 11th Dec 2022 11:42:02
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Response from Eloquent1 Original Poster made on 13th Dec 2022 01:07:57
Hi Casper,

Let me know if by penpal or chat?

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