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1950s & 60s Dancehalls/Ballrooms

Do you remember the Ritz, Mecca, Palace, dance halls and ballrooms? Where you could go in the afternoons to date some girls. They used to call these "Afternoon Tea Dances" a great source of dating. Of course they have all morphed into money grabbing Bingo!


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Mike1938
24th Apr 2023 13:19:35
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Patricia first met me at the Ilkley dance. It was February 1957… and there was I believing that I had met her. This confusion came about from our quite separate understandings that each of us was the centre of the universe. I realise now that we must have met each other but it took both of us almost a lifetime for the realisation to dawn upon us. If that sort of thing happened to two Olicanian innocents who had both experienced the ‘seen and not heard’ upbringings of the 40s and 50s, there’ll be a lot more fun to be had by our modern counterparts in the ‘me’ millennium.

I felt special when Patricia conspired with me in the ‘Challenge of the Five Steps’ by allowing me to do several dances with her that evening. Patricia was called Pat then and she stayed that way for several decades. She was 16 years old, and I was 18, but she told me afterwards that she thought that I seemed older. Either my wit and charm had finally woven their magic spell that evening… or she was being very patient with me. I was allowed to present my full CV (albeit that it had to be delivered in several discrete sections) and, although I had no way of knowing it at the time, I was being sized up for the last waltz. I spun her off her feet in a dazzling display of the quickstep, I admired her hair, and tried to impress her with my prospects of becoming the world’s first gangly-morph Chartered Engineer.

I had dared to hope that the world might become my oyster in those early days, but shellfish would later prove to be allergic to me. Puffing up my puny pectorals like a preening pigeon, I regaled Patricia with tales of my Grand Tour of Europe. She had never been further than Skegness at that time, but the tide was out when she arrived and, as it had been sunny, she thought that she had been to Libya. For me, it was love at first sight (yet again!) but this time the love was to last longer than its usual fortnight. She did allow me to escort her home and I discovered that Nat King Cole was right when he enthused about the joys of “Walking his baby back home”. However this particular walking was to prove to be a treat for me in a way that even he hadn’t appreciated… She lived less than five minutes walk from the dance hall!..

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JoyceJ1
14th Feb 2023 12:22:27
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Closet dance hall to Muswell Hill
JoyceJ1
27th Sep 2022 12:03:44 (Last activity: 27th Sep 2022 13:19:46)
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List of Ballrooms in North London in 1960's
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Cessna
24th Mar 2021 10:43:45 (Last activity: 24th Mar 2021 11:38:34)
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Hi Neil. My memories of the Guards at Caterham. go back to the late 40's and 50's when at weekends small groups of Welsh Guards would be seen wandering along North End Croydon. They were probably new recruits out on their first weekend pass. All very tall with boy like well scrubbed faces and smartly pressed uniforms.. For some years now the old barracks has long since been rebuilt into housing and office block units.
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Silverfoxy21
7th Jan 2021 20:17:15 (Last activity: 7th Jan 2021 20:36:39)
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that is awesome and sweet of you to take your mom out
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ecarg
25th Nov 2020 10:24:18
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Living in the country I remember my Farther ferrying my sister to the local village dances with local bands doing their best to play the current hits .Being seven years younger Disco's were up and running when I reached my late teens. I was an assistant in a record shop and the DJ's came in to purchase the 7 inch singles .How technology has moved on but vinyl is making a big come back
GRACE7DOM
24th Nov 2020 12:59:50 (Last activity: 24th Nov 2020 13:15:44)
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Hi everyone, I'm new here, so here goes.
Anyone remember the "mecca, otherwise known as the spinning disc" Leeds. Great times there in the mid sixties onwards. Long ago now! But was the place to go, great people, great atmosphere, great everything.
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DickD
23rd Nov 2020 14:57:04 (Last activity: 23rd Nov 2020 15:07:37)
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I was more an Orchid Ballroom boy back then, but does anyone remember the Club Location, Woolwich and what is it today - if anything?
PS. I'd add a poster of the club but cannot see how to do it. Any suggestions?
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CDKnell
28th Nov 2019 15:20:56
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Wonderful times, met my wife Paula at the Orchid Ballroom, Purley 30.08.2019. Marvellous time, we married at Sutton 24.06.1970 and will achieve our 50th wedding anniversary in 2020.
gabyone
15th Oct 2019 10:46:53 (Last activity: 15th Nov 2019 18:14:56)
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Hello I am interesting in ballrooms in London or south east London.
Response from Dwesmc6 made on 15th Nov 2019 18:14:56
So am I but have no luck in finding archive photos of the Ritz in Woolwich. I remember the Granada, woolwich, the embassy in Welling and Greenwich baths.
Dwesmc6
15th Nov 2019 18:13:32
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Hi, are you talking about the Ritz in Woolwich? I'm trying to find archive photos of it but no luck. I remember the Granada , woolwich, the embassy welling and Greenwich baths.
CindyN
31st Dec 2018 08:01:08
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I'm looking for a dance hall where it's 50's and 60's music where I can take my Mom here in Shreveport Louisiana, Does anyone know of a place here?
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3rd Oct 2016 17:29:52 (Last activity: 28th Oct 2018 08:30:01)
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Response from Kez777 made on 28th Oct 2018 08:30:01
Yes, I remember just that at the Fiesta Hall plus the Country Bumpkin on Fridays. Do you remember the name the previously Odeon on junction road Andover as I was in a show there (from Suzanne school of dancing) and just can't remember the theatre name...probably a bingo hall but it wasn't mecca

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cosyrosie
8th Jan 2016 13:27:43 (Last activity: 21st Nov 2017 19:22:34)
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I am new to silver surfers, but I thought I would respond to this post, as I have happy memories of my teenage years in and around Cambridge. The place to go on a Saturday night was the Dorothy Ballroom. It had a maple sprung floor so dancing was strictly ballroom, but downstairs there was an alternative area for jiving etc. I used to waitress at the afternoon tea dances in the ballroom when I was a student, they were very sedate affairs. I also enjoyed jazz so another favourite venue was the Rex Ballroom where I met my ex-husband. All the big jazz names came to Cambridge and we didn't miss any if we could help it. Neither of these venues exist anymore, it's wine bars and nightclubs etc. Shame.
Response from MikeManners made on 9th Mar 2017 17:05:03
As a Musician employed by Mecca Dancing - in the late 1960s. Two in London: The Lyceum Ballroom, but I can't remember the other.

A grotty Mecca-owned Dancehall-Disco at Grimsby, which I hated. But my personal favourite was The Orchid Ballroom Purley, Surrey.

I wonder what became of the friends I made at the Orchid.

One friend was a lovely punter called Helen, and she lived in Mitcham Common. She took me home to meet her parents ! Lovely family.

Does anyone have memories of the Orchid?

Mike.
Response from NeilF7 made on 21st Nov 2017 19:22:34
I joined the Guards in 1959 and went to Caterham for training .I loved dancing but was not allowed out during my twelve weeks training only the trained soldiers went the RSM was doorman to stop the fights ..posted to London I got to Lyceum Hammersmith palais and finished up a regular at Caxton Hall every Saturday Westminster Town hall .P S I now live 15 miles from Grimsby your dance halls gone
Christiana
21st Dec 2016 11:51:57
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I lived just outside Brighton in 1960s went to the Starlight Club which was in basement of large house on Montpelier Road Brighton many times I had to run along Western Road to catch last bus at 11.45pm out side Regent Dance Hall near Clock Tower -in my village and surrounding areas all street light were turned off so had to run up my avenue in dark -but then again I was only 15yrs old nothing bothered you then ......
Lenas Boy
16th Oct 2016 20:45:04
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Does anyone remember a dance hall called Tiffanys .I think it was in Shaftesbury Avenue in London it wasn't open for long I had some great nights there and met one very special girl there.
Jeffmac
6th Oct 2016 14:28:27
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Used to go to the Royal Tottenham in the early 60's with my Mates especially Jimmy Parsons and John Killingback. We used to play football with the bounces on the dance floor after it closed late at night. I also used to go to the Kings Head, Edmonton Green and to the Ilford Palais.
here's a link to a picture of the dance floor.

Patricia Dalton
13th Nov 2015 06:38:57 (Last activity: 16th Sep 2016 18:24:51)
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Were do I start, lived in Birmingham and went to the Plaza Handsworth Saturday night or The Cedar Club, Sunday The West End, Monday The Locarno, Tuesday West End, Wednesday The Whiskey a GO GO, Thursday the Brum Cavern, Friday Plaza. Some Saturdays after the Plaza we used to get on the M1 and go down to London to The pink Flamingo to see Georgie Fame he was my favourite and the Rolling Stones. Last week I won tickets to go and see Georgie Fame in London he was great and his voice hasn't changed much at all it was at a Jazz club and the atmosphere was great, and 2 yrs ago for my 68th birthday my 2 grandchildren took me to the Rolling Stones Concert at Hyde Park it was an experience I will never forget it was amazing, so I got to see my 2 favourite groups early and late in life cant be bad can it ?
Response from art1935 made on 2nd Sep 2016 10:58:27
i used to work for Mecca at the Royal,Tottenham when i was 16.we used to get Ray Ellington,Ronnie Rand and his Blue Rockets,Dr Crock and his Crackpots,Geraldo etc and the Miss Britain comps used to be held there,it was great
Response from JayneW made on 16th Sep 2016 18:24:51
Hi I grew up in Birmingham went like you to the Plaza Monday, Friday Saturday and the Ritz on a Sunday. Have some really happy memories and a few sad ones. Where dude you go to school I assume you are about the same age as me. Can remember seeing the Beatles I think that was at the Ritz, for about 2/6. Could talk and talk about those days loved them
JayneW
16th Sep 2016 18:18:33
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I remember the Plaza Ritz owned by. Mrs Regan. Used to go to the plaza, Monday's Fridays and Saturdays and the Ritz sometimes depending what was on don't remember tea dances it was all 60s music and bands. Used to to cavern in Birmingham
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