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TRAVELING SOLO AND LOOKING FOR A COMPANION?

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Davidmayes
4th Dec 2016 14:51:00 (Last activity: 6th Dec 2016 08:37:39)
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Hi I am a very, very young at heart with a lot of friends who are much younger, and therefore haven't got the money or work-free time that I have, particularly now that I intend to use my pension to pretty much travel all the time. have been to quite a few countries inthe past, though nothing that exotic. i am about to take my van to Europe for the rest of the winter, and maybe do some Workaways, but very interested to find like-minded people as traveling companions after that.
Response from Lindajean123 made on 6th Dec 2016 08:37:39
Sounds very interesting David...I cant sit around any more waiting for life...when will you be thinking of going?
Doug63
4th Dec 2016 20:48:02
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Hi. On the 31st January 2017 I am flying to Sydney to visit relatives and then explore Australia. Planning to spend about 2 months out there. Is there anyone out there who is planning a similar trip. It would be good to fly out together and possibly see some sites together. If you are interested then email me and we could meet and discuss. I live in Kent in the UK.
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4th Oct 2016 17:39:31 (Last activity: 4th Dec 2016 20:11:18)
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Response from janice smith made on 4th Oct 2016 19:12:54
Hi Waterfall I have sent you a message
Response from Happee made on 31st Oct 2016 20:12:54
Hi Waterfall. I'm from Edinburgh and looking to get away to warmer climes soon.
Response from Jinty121 made on 4th Dec 2016 20:11:18
Hi I just joined yesterday so finding my way around at the moment. I'm from just outside Edinburgh and would love to holiday with a friendly small group of people.
mpetersz
2nd Dec 2016 00:42:11
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Silversurfers,

Am looking for cruise buddy for February 2017 for 21-30 nights adventure in Australia. Either male or female. Anyone interested let me know.
catwinner16
29th Sep 2016 05:04:46 (Last activity: 29th Nov 2016 20:15:49)
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I am 54 year old single straight female from UK and living in Los Angeles and love to travel but no fun alone! I just joined today. I would love to connect with and find a great fun companion who shares the same desire and ideas of places to travel to. I want to go away in mid December or January for 1 - 2 weeks and considering somewhere hot or at least warm and possibly a health spa vacation.
Response from Sunshine2017 made on 3rd Oct 2016 23:21:49
I am traveling to South India for 3 weeks leaving in Dec returning early January. Weather in Bangalore is a balmy 75 degrees. Have traveled solo most of the time and think it will be fun to have a like minded travel companion. Planning other trips to the UK in summer. Perhaps we can chat via email to see if there are common travel interests.
Response from Lewiselewis5 made on 19th Oct 2016 00:14:20
Off to lanzarote in January to Costa teguise what do you think
Response from Ducati123 made on 29th Nov 2016 20:15:49
Hi. I am going to Tenerife mid December on my own. Single divorced man. Not looking forward to go alone
jcwatt
27th Nov 2016 14:54:43
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I am a Canadian looking for someone to share a 2 bedroom, 2 bathroom house in La Cruz de Huanacaxtle, on the Pacific Ocean, just north of Puerto Vallarta in Mexico. I am a 65 year old female and just don't want to spend the winter alone. I've done it before but it's always better with a companion. I've rented a house already for Jan -March 2017 and looking for someone to share part of that time, a week, a month, whatever.

Jessie
Frankyboy
17th Nov 2016 05:02:37
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I'm just back from a six day cruise of the Caribbean, which was super! But, with the Holidays coming I'm already considering either a short trip, here in the USA, from the Detroit, Michigan area, before New Years, or I'd like to get back to Europe, which I've not bin 2 since 2004. Last year, I was in Boston for New Years and they put on a very impressive fireworks New Years Eve, on Boston Commons. Also, attended "The Nutcracker." @ Boston's Opera House, what an architectural beauty! Anybody got any ideas? Oh, I'm a college educated retired bachelor, of very, very modest means: so I need "run up" time for my travel plans (to save money for purchase and spending), sadly its the way of my world, but travel is worth sacrifice! So, I have the time and desire ta go, but minus the dinero to jump quickly on a trip.
Travelfree
9th Aug 2016 22:02:20 (Last activity: 17th Nov 2016 04:44:58)
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Silversurfers,

Am looking for cruise buddy for February 2017 for 14 nights adventure.

Fly from Uk to Singapore , 2nights hotel stay in Singapore

10nights cruise on RCI Legend of seas visiting Singapore, Malaysia,India & Dubai

2 nights stay in hotel in Dubai before flying back to the UK.

Anyone interested let me know.
Response from Funtimes made on 31st Aug 2016 23:26:37
I am interested in this cruise, r u still looking for a travel buddy.
Response from Frankyboy made on 17th Nov 2016 04:34:24
This is probably a little to late, but I just joined silver surfers. I mean to both save enough money to do this (cuz I'm an American who needs to save up some money and that is only two months to save, and it is a bit difficult to meet and determine if we would enjoy each others company)? So, initially, I would need to know if those things are deal breakers for you, and finally, "How much is it?" I'm in good health, no meds. I've a degree in American Studies, which might not appeal to a European? Retired almost ten years, and while I've been to Paris 15 times, and Mexico and Germany and Italy, I've yet to get to Asia. Actually, I really want to get to India! Not just the Taj, but the warm weather and the people.
Response from Frankyboy made on 17th Nov 2016 04:44:58
Also, I just got back from my second Caribbean cruise, this one ending in SanJuan, Puerto Rico. It was nice, and I may have made some new friends. I know I had a really nice time and the space betwixt the Pacific Ocean and the Indian Ocean would be quite exotic, for me. I'm not sure how I would best get there: (a) fly to England and go with you to S.E. Asia, or (b) go west and meet you in S.E. Asia, which seems like too much flying "solo," which doesn't appeal to me. Either way, I'd have to deal with the last leg home to Michigan, in the US would be mine, but I've done that (going via Europe) and it is shorter than crossing the Pacific, alone?
Jacrotraveler
8th Sep 2016 19:23:30 (Last activity: 17th Nov 2016 04:17:43)
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Hi everyone! I'm recently retired and planning to walk the Camino de Santiago next fall! I hope to begin the pilgrimage in late Sept. or early Oct. Looking for one or two others to begin the journey with me... I have few exact plans at this point and open to ideas of others. I'm going to attend local events, Seattle, Washington, to meet with others that have successfully done the trek. Anyone else out there ready for the challenge....?
Response from Frankyboy made on 17th Nov 2016 04:17:43
I am very new to this. I just registered a day, ago. I am an American retired bachelor. I've traveled both alone, mostly, and with a very controlling but travel savy person, who drove me away(waiting for information - they always wanted to surprise me, or keep me from guessing, or something plus they had anger issues). So, remembering travel (which I love) and feeling competent and friendly, I now am trying to companion travel (plus, it is cheaper - no single supplements, Yuk!). As for the Camino de Santiago de Compastella, I've burned to walk that for just about a decade. I used to stay @ a small hotel in Paris, down the street from the Church, where it is usually the starting point. I'm in Michigan. Whether you get a group, or it is just you, I'd be very interested for next year.
jeanymay
15th Nov 2016 09:12:02
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Oh wow I hope you find your companion/partner Ken.
kenbu01
15th Nov 2016 03:00:43
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hi , I would like to find a compatible female companion , slim to medium bld , interested in trips away,
prefer someone in their 60s, I live in Rockhampton,i am divorced, also like to find a perm partner,
regards ken.
Travelbuzz
7th Nov 2016 02:18:07
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Hello, I am planning to visit the North American region beginning May 30th 2017 over land to Alaska, Canada, Upper mid-west, Northwest USA from Beloit, Wisconsin for at least three months. I am inquiring if there maybe someone who would be interested in joining me.
Larrydg
30th Oct 2016 14:15:46 (Last activity: 6th Nov 2016 23:38:42)
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Hi everyone. Since my separation 3years ago I've have done a lot of traveling and yes at times it felt as tho I didn't have a friend in the world. I'm open to any trips that you would like company. I have a son living in Australia and one in America. Comes in handy as bases. Thanks
Response from Fflorielle made on 31st Oct 2016 08:20:47
I have done a lot of traveling since the death of my husband,but I am without a companion now,but loathe to give up traveling, and not yet found the courage to go by myself.
Response from Travelbuzz made on 6th Nov 2016 23:26:28
I am planning to visit the North American region beginning May 30th 2017 over land to Alaska, Canada, Upper mid-west, Northwest USA from Beloit, Wisconsin for at least three months. I am inquiring if there maybe someone who would be interested in joining me.
Response from Travelbuzz made on 6th Nov 2016 23:38:42
I am planning to visit the North American region beginning May 30th 2017 over land to Alaska, Canada, Upper mid-west, Northwest USA from Beloit, Wisconsin for at least three months. I am inquiring if there maybe someone who would be interested in joining me.

Tentative Travel plans and itinerary for Alaska, Canada, Upper mid-west, and Northwest USA.

YOU, want to get to your farthest designation as quickly as you can and then venture on your return in more detail when traveling to and from. This trip is like a to and from with a circle.  

Vehicle: Reconditioned 1995 Jeep Grand Cherokee Limited 4 x 4 with a 5.2 engine. 131,000 miles (designed for 300,000 miles. You find my reconstruction by going to the website with photos in the first album. www.flickr.com/photos/travelbuzz/sets  . All body work will be finished beginning in April 2017.  There is also a 20 cu.ft  storage cargo carrier for the roof of the Jeep manufactured by Thule from Sweden. Besides a tow package on the jeep that can just about tow anything. Stereo system by Sony w/ disk and mp3 player, 4 speakers, two in the front doors and two large ( 10 to 12 in sq.) in the rear cargo area.

Your costs: 50/50 on all fuel and general maintenance of the jeep, food, lodging, etc, etc, etc. There is another cost divided 50/50 of the wear and tear of the Jeep and supplies to be agreed upon. There is a 300 dollar deposit that will be returned to you less any bills out standing. This deposit in non refundable 6 weeks before departure date of late May 30th, 2017, our tentative leaving date. You must commit for at least two months of the trip before any refund is refunded. The two months would bring us to Seattle, Washington USA for any transportation that you would need to travel anywhere.

I will also look into any added vehicle insurance that you may have to contribute for this trip with my insurance company. Canada will want proof and I must be insured for this country.

You, must have all documents, medicial insurance (please check), to enter Canada and back into the USA. You must send me proof of all your documents three months before we leave WITH YOUR 300 DOLLAR deposit.
spuddie
8th Sep 2016 17:39:25 (Last activity: 3rd Nov 2016 10:01:45)
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hi im spuddie looking for a companion same age or older
Response from smudger15 made on 9th Sep 2016 08:27:23
hi Spuddie
you dont give us much to go on with. It would be worth putting up your age, what sort of companion, what you are interested in and looking for and maybe a pic
Response from Campolady made on 3rd Nov 2016 10:01:45
Hi Spuddle, how about a bit more info about yourself? Then maybe some contacts for you?
PrimaTX
24th May 2016 14:05:33 (Last activity: 23rd Oct 2016 15:58:48)
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Hi all,
I'm an Australian living in Houston TX. I am a young 61yo, well travelled widow. It has been very lonely since my husband passed and I have been playing with different ideas of what I would like to do with my life from here on in. I have thought about selling my home and just moving around, but I worry about losing my home base security.
I am Italian by heritage and do speak the language. I have a lot of family in Italy and Australia, but I don't actually want to live in Australia again full time.
I have cruised a lot, I RV'd here in the US full time for 7 years with my husband (which I loved doing!) and although I am asset strong, cash flow is limited and there is still so much of the world and the US I would love to see, so if anyone needs a fun companion, I'd be open to it!
Response from Fpath12 made on 24th May 2016 21:26:13
Hi ,I love the idea of travelling with a RV. I am open to suggestions. Let me know your thoughts.
Response from KEITH_WL made on 24th May 2016 21:40:39
I'm hopeless at abbreviations, what does RV mean? I did a look up and it came up with umpteen possible meanings.
Response from PrimaTX made on 25th May 2016 15:15:57
Recreational Vehicle 🙂
Response from KEITH_WL made on 25th May 2016 17:41:53
Thanks Prima. Will you say a bit more - what defines a recreational vehicle? It's not an idea that has come my way since my mode of travel is usually train. (I was interested that a train I travelled in last summer from France to Germany displayed the speed - just under 200mph. I do mean mph, it was of course given in kph, nearly 320.)
Response from KimFh made on 30th May 2016 20:19:16
She means Camper Van, also known as RV.
Response from KEITH_WL made on 30th May 2016 20:29:56
Thanks for the clarification, Kim.
Response from traveltraveltravel made on 23rd Oct 2016 15:58:48
Hi,

Finally someone from US. I live in IL, would like a travel companion
for Nepal Feb. 1st, 2017, are you interested?
Suzanne511
4th Aug 2016 11:24:47 (Last activity: 22nd Oct 2016 09:54:44)
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Just read a post on this subject below, where a poor lady met up with someone to travel with, someone she did not know well, and sadly and cruelly this person "scammed her" ran off with her money under the guise of booking their trip. We must ALL be careful with what and who we share information with, on any forum, as those who are unscrupulous will at times join such forums for the purpose of scamming. And this poor lady, sorry forget her "handle" right now, was obviously a trusting and genuine person and automatically thought everyone to be the same. Forums are great for the initial contact, but, and it's a bit but, the only way to know someone, someone you may want to travel with is to get to KNOW them in the real world, and not divulge too much via the internet.

Don't automatically presume because someone is friendly, or you meet them on a forum, whether it be SilverSurfers or not, they are who they say they are. If you meet with someone OFF the forum, ensure:

1. you meet in a public place
2.You let someone know where and who you're meeting
3. Don't give your home address to anyone until you know them very well.
4. If you give out a phone number - don't give your land line, use a mobile number, harder to trace than a land line.
5. If they start to ask about money, or say they're suffering financial difficulties be very aware.
6. Don't invite anyone in to your home just because you get on well in a forum - because it's no different to meeting a total stranger out and then inviting them home. People can get very lost in the "friends zone" of forums and presume someone is genuine.
7. Go on your gut instincts, they are usually spot on - if you feel something, no matter how small, or you can't quite put your finger on it, TRUST it and act upon it.
8. Never give money to someone even in person to book a holiday, or anything else that means passing over a considerable sum of money. This ONLY belongs to the people we have known a lifetime or a very, very long time.

For women looking for female travel companions, you might like
https://www.thelmandlouise.com/en-gb/ Thelma and Louise, travel companions for women only.
Response from KEITH_WL made on 4th Aug 2016 13:16:45
Good for you, Suzanne. I have met online contacts, most of them in other countries in fact, and my method is much like yours. We have usually followed a step-by-step procedure, giving it time, like this:-

1) First contact in social network.
2) Text chat.
3) Exchange - and use - e-mail.
4) Phone contact - voice only.
5) Possibly Skype.
6) Arrange to meet in a public place and/or with safe persons in attendance.

The number is not large (*), about 6-8. All except one have become real friends. That one was not unsafe but we didn't hit it off and are no longer in touch.

(*) I learnt a Spanish proverb years ago: "Amigos y libros, pocos, buenos y bien conocidos".

Keith
Response from thommo made on 9th Aug 2016 23:51:57
Yes that is a great list of things Suzanne 511 to check,verify and get right before you consider any holiday partner.
It is such a shame that many people nowadays are on their own and would still like to venture abroad and enjoy the final years of their lives and maybe fulfill that bucket list.
Common sense i guess at the end of the day and only after a few meets and get to know someone before agreeing anything and most importantly pay at the same time for anything.
Good luck if you are in this position.
Response from SA made on 22nd Oct 2016 09:54:44
I also very carefully read whether anything anyone writes is well written and without spelling mistakes.
[deleted]
20th Sep 2016 20:15:53 (Last activity: 22nd Oct 2016 08:23:05)
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Response from sonroy made on 20th Sep 2016 20:32:10
That would be fabulous like a mystery silversurfer holiday, no one knows who will turn up, we could go on a national holiday, .etc arrange. I live in York but could travel sonroy
Response from Lek made on 5th Oct 2016 19:12:14
Great idea. Would be interested to know the 'other group' you mentioned.
Response from Jinny1 made on 19th Oct 2016 22:17:43
I think getting a group of people together would be great. I live in Yorkshire. I`m 67yrs of age
Response from KimFh made on 21st Oct 2016 11:55:28
I would think it was a great idea too, I tried to people interested in this before but didn't get a lot of serious interest. A mystery 'friend' meet up great idea.
Response from KEITH_WL made on 21st Oct 2016 22:19:36
Just a thought - I have been to one-day meets of a group based on a newsgroup devoted to The Archers. Firm friendships were made because we'd *met* and in safe circumstances. A development of the idea might be to base such meetings on regions to cut down travelling.

Keith
Response from Fflorielle made on 22nd Oct 2016 08:23:05
Good Idea anyone interested should say where they are from and work out something from that. I am near Newcastle.
jeanymay
20th Oct 2016 09:27:39
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Don't give up Bracken you'll get used to it. If you goo to your Homepage then click on My History there will be a list of articles you have commented on which will also show everyone elses comments to yours.
Keep trying, and just ask for help.
Bracken16
20th Oct 2016 08:41:08
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Oh well iv tried and failed.....Really can not get my head around this site. My apologies to those people that have messaged me as I can not find any of the messages now.....hope you all meet some nice people and have some lovely holidays : )
Lewiselewis5
19th Oct 2016 00:21:06 (Last activity: 19th Oct 2016 19:15:42)
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Travelling to Italy on the 21st October wondering if there are any other single travellers there staying on the outskirts of sorrento
Response from Lindylootoo made on 19th Oct 2016 19:15:42
I'm flying to Bari on 22nd October but am with a walking group. Why don't you post on Trip Advisor and see if someone responds.
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