Just joined so I'm introducing myself.
Watch this postI will be 67 next month and retired from the many different jobs in my working life. I guess that I didn’t ever find my calling. I went to university at age 59 but when it was over it was too late to launch a new career. I wanted to lecture but students don’t want to listen to old fogies, so sadly I put aside that idea and settled into life as an eccentric dog owner.
I live in a beautiful Lancashire valley surrounded by hills that demand they be walked/climbed, how could I refuse?
I would like to do a bit of cycle touring but a recent diagnosis of spondylosis and some hip pain means that I may not be doing a world tour anytime soon!
I’m keen to make some friends as I have been on my own for a very long time now, my daughters don’t bother much with me and I don’t have a partner.I didn’t expect to be so isolated at this time in my life, isn’t it strange the way family and friends seem to forget us when we get past 60?
I will pop in regularly and hope to strike up some friendships.
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The local u3a changed my life and opened up interests so I now run three monthly groups ie lunches and antiques ... no comments please ... laughs
I live out in the countryside now ... not lived in London since I was 25 and that was some time ago as time rushes on sadly.
South Warks near the Glouc. border is where you will find me ... smile
Living in Swindon Wiltshire but originally from Birmingham.
Still no more negatives lets see whats of interest here, looks impressive so far.
PS/ I don't always wear a Santas hat ( Only Christmas )
I am 69 and a single male never married , living in a flat in a retirement home in the town
Well I have joined ... so far so good we talked on phone recently ... Sue
I love most sports and am interested in world affairs and just want to share thoughts with others of my age group. I'm a fit 70, I swim regularly and walk Sam, my dog, twice a day. I love the walks on my local downs and keep meaning to study cloud structure! I am learning the piano which is very challenging and enjoyable. My career was in computer programming and I have 3 great children. Enough of me!
You hang in there and all will be good.
I've just joined today . I live in Torrance California . Currently working as a ship engineer . Lost my wife to cancer . turned 51 this year . Hoping to make new friends and acquaintance with like minded people. Hit me up via email: [email protected]
I've just joined today. I live in Chatham, Kent and currently work as a Sales Assistant. I am also carer to my Mother.
I only turned 50 this year and found out about the Silversurfers on my Facebook feed because my sister follows the Silversurfers FB page. When I saw the feed I thought I was too young to join then saw that it's for the over 50's so joined!
Hope to make new friends and acquaintance's with like minded people.
Thanks for the welcome!
I just joined live in Aylesford kent love animals nature, have not long moved here and my husband passed away, now would like to make some friends to chat to as feel very lost and alone.
Welcome to the site....not much of a "joiner" myself but I've heard that U3A is very good for meeting like minded people and taking up new interests.
When I moved to a new area 4 years ago I began volunteering at a local charity shop, you'd be surprised at the number of people Who now recognise me and stop for a chat!
Welcome to the site. I can promise you that there is a light at the end of what may seem a very long tunnel. I've been on my own for 19 years and found that once I'd got over the first couple of years I picked up the pieces and went from strength to strength. It may not seem possible at the moment but I'm sure you will do the same!
I to like yoga and walking.
I am thinking about moving on. Crazy when i have a loving husband and a first grandchild on the way.
I always wanted a flat of my own but have been married for 40 year's so my head is in turmoil really.
I am sure i am just a selfish person.
I hope you are feeling less lonely? Happy to listen.
All the best.
Enjoy your new life!
Moved to Somerset UK three years ago and finding making friends difficult has anyon been in the same position when they have moved on their own?
I am married with a family, all on their own now. My husband is getting ready to retire. We are considering Florida.
I like travel,outdoors,camping and family.
i like to laugh an banter not easy being on your own,