Silversurfers Dating Site
Watch this postHi anyone out there. Has anyone used the Silversurfers dating site recently? If so I would be interested to hear from you about your experiences, as I have just paid up for 3 months. Here's hoping I get some replies lol
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I'm a lonely 53 year old Swansea builder looking to meet an older Swansea based lady ! any tips or help in this matter be fab.Many thanks Jeremy xx
Yes, I have paid on a site.
Please ladies where are you.?
I have seen myself enough times in the mirror to know that at 69 my best chances , if any, will be helped by heavy shadow and poor vision.
What I wanted to say was that in 2001 I embarked on the dating scene. It was simpler then, there was a locally run agency.... and you got a list of numbers and brief descriptions. It was up to you to call and chat and take it from there.... sounds too easy?
I must have met about 30 ladies over the months, all in public places, all genuine. Sometimes we would get on quite well, sometimes it was a straight thumbs down and back in their car from her!
I was never that blunt, but always knew if it was going to be a strained meeting. Never the same face to face, even after several phone conversations.
Did eventually have a relationship that lasted for a couple of years, but it was on and off. I found I was being changed into someone I didn't want to be, and eventually it ended.
Back on the road again and on a chat site a bit like this, (Saga) I was messaged by a lady living quite nearby, we met and we never looked back. We were always going to be together.
Two years ago, both of us with cancer, things looked bleak. But I survived... prostate. She, bowel cancer, also clear.
However, reason for this long story, as the tragic result of a simple reversal operation I am again alone as of a couple of months ago.
Far too soon to be looking for anyone else, she was my life. But sometime in the future I would want someone to love and support, to hug and to hold. Its a human nature thing.
But, older, bald, physically diminished.......... what are the chances!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your comment about heavy shadow and poor light made me smile and also your comment about being changed into someone that you didn't want to be gave me a sense of deja vu. It would be nice to think that the people on the dating websites were all genuinely looking for a partner or a nice friendship instead of a casual relationship but life doesn't seem to be like that. However there are nice people out there, as I have recently found out, and, in my opinion, if you accept each other as you are and can talk, laugh and love together then everything will be okay.
Good luck! 🙂
So I still try to work, give the days a purpose. Its become a habit to turn the computer on at least twice a day and check the emails in case there has been a message, something exciting that isn't lighting.com telling me about their new range of lightbulbs.
These posts seem to develop great spaces in them, sometimes weeks or months between comments and then maybe a little rush of comments. My first reply in June was to a post of March 2017! But this was a series that was relevant to me in some ways.
Somehow the threads or posts themselves are rather elusive, and although not lost are not easy to find, and only used be a very few?
How refreshing to read your post & having been widowed for 12 years now, I understand you asking about Christmas breaks. I hope you found something suitable.
I used to love Christmas & enjoyed hosting Christmas Day with the family. Grandchildren added to the fun & excitement. Since losing my soulmate, I’ve spent Christmas with family & although I have a nice time, it’s just not special anymore.
Is it the same for you ?