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Pen pals

I have been pen palling for a while now does anyone else do this and is there somewhere on the site for this? It would be nice to write to people on here if they were interested.


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PatriciaB96
29th Mar 2020 18:43:30
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Good evening to all new members , I hope you will be happy with this site .
Response from fauna made on 1st Apr 2020 14:24:20
Hello Patricia,

So sorry I didn't get back to you sooner ; I have "hit and miss" problems with my old laptop ! The broadband signal where I am can be a bit of a lottery at times .

Thank you for the welcome to us "newbies" . It's so good to have a connection to each other , and maybe not feel as lonely too .; especially now of course .

I'm not really used to "chat rooms" , as I tend to use the phone and emails mostly , but when I was a bit younger I loved writing a letter or two to pen pals in the post ( what's that eh ? !! ) and used to enjoy thinking out and writing the odd poem when I was a youngster ; especially about nature .

Would be lovely to hear from you again Patricia , if you'd like that .
All best wishes to you and your family ,
Keep well.


Also , best wishes and keep well to everyone on Silversurfers !
Response from The_bees_knees made on 23rd Apr 2020 17:08:58 > @fauna
Hello Fauna,
I have gleaned from your posts that you used to write letters, are similar age to me, enjoy nature, cats and live in the Highlands! All good to me!
I am hoping to find people to exchange letters by snail mail so if that interests you or anyone else reading this, please do contact me.
I live in Dorset, am female, 56, reading books, writing. growing things in my garden (watching things blossom and producing an organic food source) I so love music (enjoy seeing bands) Motorcycles - I ride pillion (current a Honda VFR 800) Love to hear others' opinions, chat, banter or gloriously written letters...by post.
Think on't! It will be the bees knees!
Response from FELINEFRIEND made on 24th Apr 2020 10:44:53 > @The_bees_knees
Hi Bees knees,it's another lovely sunny day here in West Midlands
My name is Ann,I'm 55,and owned by 3lovely cats.Ive been enjoying being in the garden this week and planting up some hanging baskets and had some nice walks in the park admiring the lovely blossom and tulips in full bloom.I love nature and animals and trips out to the countryside and the coast.I love Dorset, particularly Weymouth where we have had many lovely holidays.Hope you have a good day, take care from Ann.
Response from islandPat made on 24th Apr 2020 11:20:16 > @FELINEFRIEND
Not so nice here today - where roughly in the West Midlands are you from?

Pat 🙂
Response from The_bees_knees made on 24th Apr 2020 12:49:07 > @islandPat
Islandpat, you left me a message and in my haste I pressed something untoward and it vanished. I cannot locate it. I have left you a message in the private chats. Do please get back to me!
Response from FELINEFRIEND made on 24th Apr 2020 15:27:29 > @islandPat
Hi Highland pat, thanks for your reply,it's still warm and sunny here,I live in Bloxwich,near Walsall, whereabouts are you from roughly.Ive just got home from mom's , been mowing her lawns as gardener not coming under the circumstances.Going to sit in garden with a cuppa and my cats now.
Response from islandPat made on 24th Apr 2020 18:18:53 > @FELINEFRIEND
It's Island Pat as I now live in Cyprus but I was born in Bloxwich maternity home and lived in Walsall in the Birchills area, not too far from Reedswood Park.

Have lots of relatives in Bloxwich - am doing my family tree

We are very restricted at the moment, weather not too good today but did get to 20 C. It has rained but dodged the rain to walk the dog.

Pat
Response from FELINEFRIEND made on 24th Apr 2020 19:21:03 > @islandPat
Hi Pat, small world isn't it,both myself and my husband were born in Bloxwich maternity home to.My mom was born in the Birchills 90 years ago in Pargeter street,then moved to Roland street,had lots of family around their a long time ago.What part of Cyprus do you live in?We have been to Paphos 3 times, lovely place and such friendly people
We went to the King Evathelon hotel near Coral bay in the February 2years ago and weather was lovely, everyone was flying kites on the beach and having barbecues.
I will be glad when this lockdown is over so we can start traveling again,we were meant to be going to Turkey in 2weeks time but it's been cancelled,we did manage to get a week in Gran Canaria though at the end of February which was nice.What are your hobbies?I like gardening and spending time with our 3cats, their are plenty of stray cats to feed in Cyprus aren't their
Hope you have a lovely weekend take care from Ann X
Response from islandPat made on 24th Apr 2020 20:31:25 > @FELINEFRIEND
Ann look above Elgin52 from Walsall and Bees Knees is a Brummie 🙂

Look at Neale St Walsall, where I lived, it's off Hollyhedge Road and so is Pargeter St. Did she go to St Andrew's School?

Your mum may have known him.

https://www.expressandstar.com/editors-picks/2015/05/12/plaque-unveiled-at-walsall-home-of-bletchley-park-codebreaker/

I was at Bletchley last May - easy to get there on the train from Walsall.

I live in Kolossi. You were here on Green Monday - equivalent of Shrove Tuesday, Lent starts next day.

I had a trip to UK booked leaving Wednesday 29th April, returning 13th May - been cancelled as you'll realise.

I have joined C3A (U3A in UK) and go to book club and lead the family history group. Can spend hours up my tree.

Our dog, as a very young pup, was abandoned and walked into our house one night and she's nearly 5 now. Lots of cats are being caught by charities and neutered then returned to where they were caught. They normally have a clipped ear to prove they are neutered.

Hope your weather holds up - we have rain!!!! but was 20 C today.

Stay safe

Pat x
Response from FELINEFRIEND made on 25th Apr 2020 09:35:47 > @islandPat
Good morning Pat, Thanks for the info on the gentleman from the Birchills,I will ask my mom if she knew him.My hubby worked at Powell's leather factory in Hollyhedge lane for a short while when he left school and my aunt lived in a flat their also
I have a penpal who lives in Deep more avenue also
Weather bit dull today but still 18degrees warm for April.
You live on a wonderful island,.It was kind of you to take in your little dog,if I lived their we would have a menagerie.Last time we visited a lady from a restaurant in the harbour at Paphos was rescuing and feeding stray cats,I took her some cat food for them.Hope you have a lovely weekend, from Ann.️
Response from JimboN8 made on 26th Apr 2020 03:22:39 > @FELINEFRIEND
loved your email
How are you doing tonight
Response from islandPat made on 29th Apr 2020 17:56:17
Hello Rob,

Well lets see - didn't go to pubs in Walsall as I was too small to be taken seriously and had a drink taken off me at 21 in Walsall - by then I had a WRAF ID card with DOB.

Used to walk up St Matthew's hill quite often as I had relatives in Tantarra St, Chuckery Rd, Walsingham St and Moncrieffe St. It was either the hill, Ablewell St or a walk through the Arboretum to Crabtrees and then to whoever we were going to see.

Pleck Park was Edward Shelley's games area until they decided the cars needed the area more and took it for the M6. St John's was Edward Shelley's church for Christmas and Easter.

I went to Fellows Park but also Villa. Knew a family lived near you the Woods.

Been to Mellish Church, knew people in Borneo St.

When we had a caravan we stayed at the Caravan Club Site near Scarborough.

I too loved the Arboretum, spent hours in there, the lights were magic. I took my children one year and watch their faces - magic for them too.

We both left at 18 then but I scooted around UK for a few years before ancoring up in Newark followed by Walesby both in Notts.

Nice to meet you - we're the Bloxwich Mat Home Musketeers 🙂

Pat 🙂
Response from FELINEFRIEND made on 29th Apr 2020 18:50:13
Hi,Rob, lovely to hear your memories of Walsall.The lady you mentioned on the sweet stall used to teach my mom piano lessons.Walsall has changed a great deal now and a lot of the town centre pubs have closed now.The arboretum has recently enjoyed a much needed facelift and has a new cafe by the boat lake.My mom used to walk up the steep hill by Saint Matthews to work at stammers factory when she was 14, Happy days.Take care from Ann
Response from The_bees_knees made on 29th Apr 2020 19:46:03 > @islandPat
Oh the Arboretum. My mother & I, my children (who are now 22 & 18) and my nephew (27) went to the Arboretum to see the lights some years ago when they were small.
When I was visiting my mother in Great Barr.

We also used to take the kids swimming to the Walsall baths. (My mother having learned to swim later in life and a better swimmer than any of us).

We used to go to a wool/knitting shop a stone's throw from the market and again my mother would knit some creations for my little ones.

We would catch the No 51 bus from the Scott Arms Shopping Centre (Grt Barr) travel up the Birmingham Rd and be in Walsall within 15/20 mins.
My children unfamiliar with double decker buses found it a novelty..

Thanks for your chat message earlier Pat.

Have a.nice evening.
Response from islandPat made on 29th Apr 2020 20:27:42
Cannock Chase murderer who lived near the police station in Walsall

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cannock_Chase_murders
Response from FELINEFRIEND made on 29th Apr 2020 21:19:34
Hi Rob,my mom was named Joan brown,at the time she had piano lessons, take care from Ann
Jenny Anne
29th Jan 2025 20:50:17
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I have just joined. I enjoy travel my favourite place is Cornwall. I love reading murder mysteries have read nearly all agatha christie novels. I am a widow and have a son called Andrew. Hope to be in touch with people as I love to chat.
Sweetsoul0099
27th Jan 2025 04:30:30
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It's nice to meet you Anna!
Sweetsoul0099
27th Jan 2025 04:25:19
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Nice to meet you, Alice! I'm Conrad from Texas. Just wanted to reach out and say hello. Hope you're having a great day!
Michael12
13th Jan 2025 20:14:42
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Looking fgor someone to chat to in the first instance
LilAlice1964
22nd Dec 2024 12:34:09
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Hello I am LilAlice I am looking for a pen pal to keep me busy and mentally active. I hope to hear from my Pen Pals soon ok. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
Shelly70
31st May 2024 19:28:52 (Last activity: 12th Jul 2024 14:59:15)
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Hi, my name is Shelly, and I'm looking for someone to talk to once in a while. I'm a very active person and I'm always doing something. I enjoy my garden very much as it relaxes me. I love learning new things and researching interesting topics. I am currently working on 2 PhD programs. I love SiFi movies when I get the chance to watch them. I have 3 little dogs that are my heart and joy. I look forward to hearing from the community.
Response from PatriciaB96 made on 8th Jun 2024 21:07:44
Good evening and welcome to the site, I hope you will make lots of friends here , lots of topics to..chat about
Response from Cherieshernelle made on 10th Jun 2024 07:45:22
Hi Shelly I’m looking for someone to talk to as well I love art I love learning new things and I have 3 animals as well
Response from FELINEFRIEND made on 12th Jul 2024 14:59:15 > @Cherieshernelle
Hi
How are you,I just dropped in to look at the comments on community site.
I'm Ann ,I'm married and 59
Do you still want someone to chat to
I've got 3 cats and I love animals and nature
Bye for now Ann
teacups
11th Jul 2024 03:08:37
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PatriciaB96
12th Jun 2024 12:26:52
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Good afternoon, it may take some time , before people answer , it can be a bit slow at times , hope your mum finds some friends soon
Mavern
20th Apr 2024 15:57:32 (Last activity: 24th Apr 2024 10:06:18)
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Hello

I am seeking a pen pal.

If you are interested in a bit of snailmail, please let me know.

M
Response from PatriciaB96 made on 24th Apr 2024 10:06:18
Good morning and welcome to the site
kimmy6768
15th Dec 2023 23:42:24 (Last activity: 11th Jan 2024 09:16:22)
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im just looking for senior lady penpal to communicate with
Response from Mandy18h made on 10th Jan 2024 13:22:45
Hi Kimmy, I would like to pen pal, or better still do it on computer as i have osteoarthritis in hands I am 67 & a widow. in surrey best wishes mandy
Response from PatriciaB96 made on 11th Jan 2024 09:16:22
Good morning and welcome, I hope you find lots of friends here I myself age 63 grandmother and soon great grandmother, I would like a pen pal .
Enjoy your day
Johnnybee
11th Aug 2021 15:49:18 (Last activity: 21st Jul 2023 11:53:29)
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Hello, I am very new here, it feels rather like being a new boy at school and needing to find ones way round, but being very old one finds that many old friends ar falling by the wayside and new ones are needed. I will comment further when I know my way round..
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Response from Jenann made on 13th Aug 2021 04:40:29
I am also new here trying to find my way around. Got on here looking for "pen pal" and someone to chat with. I understand you when you said that friends are falling by the wayside. Everyone needs a friend.
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Response from Suzn6 made on 25th Aug 2021 19:12:12
Hi! How's everyone doing out there? Just joined and I'm figuring out this community.. say hello if you'd like to chat.
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Response from panzer432 made on 11th Oct 2021 11:49:15 > @Jenann
Hi Jennan, I am looking for a pen pal too who will talk about anything
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Response from Fluffy111 made on 20th Jul 2022 21:16:25 > @Jenann
Hi Jenann,Im new on here too.Im a lady in my 70s i live in Norfolk England where do you live? I should like to chat with you or be a penpal to you.
Response from CarolynP3 made on 1st Apr 2023 21:57:45 > @Fluffy111
Hi Fulffy111, are you still active in penpal, I'm new here I live in Charlotte NC, 70 yr young. I enjoy walking, chatting,reading crochet, Bible study. Hope all is well with you, hope to here back from you.

CarplynP3
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Response from Aardie175 made on 21st Jul 2023 11:53:29 > @Jenann
Hello Jennan...I just joined and I am also looking for a penpal to write to. Would you like to have a nw penfriend ? I am 64 and live in England. Thank you
Aardie
tom2w
3rd Jun 2023 13:16:16
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looking for some like minded people. I'm a progressive against the war. Any sane people out there?
Anna Tags
7th Apr 2022 04:34:34 (Last activity: 14th May 2023 22:32:29)
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I would enjoy having some email friends here. My email is annatags@yahoo.com
Response from Easygoingfletch made on 14th May 2023 22:32:29
Good evening Anna. My name is fletch would you be interested to be a pen pal. With me ? F
RitaB10
5th May 2023 11:02:46 (Last activity: 14th May 2023 22:18:50)
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Hi Iam Rita .new to this site my interest are walking riding meeting friends for coffee .love to hear from you all x
Response from Easygoingfletch made on 14th May 2023 22:18:50
Good evening Rita.my name is fletch and nice to meet you. I have many hobbies ,swimming sunny holidays, find foods, and I am a big people watcher if that dont sound a little bit odd? F
Leila Lesser
7th Feb 2023 17:38:35 (Last activity: 1st Apr 2023 22:23:18)
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I'd love to start writing and connecting with a pen pal.
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Response from CarolynP3 made on 1st Apr 2023 22:04:25 > @Sally - Silversurfer's Editor
HI Leila, I,m new as today, I'm in my 70's, live in Charlotte NC
my interest are nature walks,reading,chatting,crocheting and several other things. Have you met many penpals?
Hope to hear back from you.
Response from Leila Lesser made on 1st Apr 2023 22:23:18
Hi Carolyn.
Thanks for getting in touch.Its lovely to hear from you.
I'm in bed at the moment. It's 10.20pm here in London in the UK.
I had a busy day so felt a bit tired so thought I'd have an early night. Too much excitement for an old girl.
If you don't mind can I get back to you tomorrow. Be nice to chat.
Hope you are well
All the best
Leila
Theodora2
26th Oct 2022 16:11:26 (Last activity: 1st Apr 2023 18:49:27)
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Hi, I am French, living in Paris, new here, trying to find my way around. Looking for friends to chat with.
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Response from Marjam4 made on 27th Oct 2022 13:47:14
Hi Theodora, I'm new too. Looking for a penpal. I live in Canberra, Australia. Am an artist and a therapist. Hobbies are folk medicine, astrology, writing articles to publish and helping others with their autobiography, gardening generally and growing my own organic produce specifically.
Cheers,
Maria
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Whitakerleslie24gmailcom
18th Jan 2022 23:43:50 (Last activity: 23rd Nov 2022 10:54:49)
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I am new. Don’t know my way around. Would love to pen pal with someone male or female. I am 69 year old lady, young at heart. I quilt, crochet, wrote my first novel working on my second. Love music, animals, old cars from the late 50’s. Looking forward to hear from you. My first name is Leslie but I go by georgette.
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Response from Ruth55 made on 5th Feb 2022 16:43:54
Hi Georgette

So you want a penpal? Not sure if I will be ok for you as I am a rather boring person - but I will write a snippet and see what you think? I joined this site several years ago after someone recommended it for organised holidays for older people. As it happened the first day I logged on there was a holiday just perfect for myself and my husband. It was a coach tour around Sicily. This may sound horrible but I don't enjoy holidays with him as we have such different interests but I thought if it's organised, we may not argue about the what to do every day. So I booked it and off we went and it actually worked out ok. Sadly with Covid and other reasons I haven't really had a holiday since. Unless you count the odd times my daughter has invited me along with her for the odd weekends to help look after the children. Which I love doing.

I have visited the Silversurfers site the odd time since but never really found what I was looking for. To be honest, not sure what I was looking for! Today, I came on looking for a holiday for later in the year. Another totally organised one but sadly didn't find one. However, Penpal popped up and I thought mmmm.. give it a go. I think what caught my eye was the similarity of our hobbies (but not the old cars). My granddaughter asked for some dolly clothes and I got this odd idea of crocheting some. Well, I haven't done any since I was 14 when we all did poncho's! So my attempts were not great but she is happy and I really enjoyed doing outfits for all three of her babies. I also love dogs, and have a 13 year old working cocker who is adorable but deaf as a post and I also regularly dog sit my son's rescue Doberman. Sadly I lost mine two years ago at the sad age of 5. Again a rescue, which obviously had not been bred by decent people (this is me being very polite!).

Well, I think that is enough. How did I do?

Ruth
Response from Whitakerleslie24gmailcom made on 5th Feb 2022 22:06:11 > @Sally - Silversurfer's Editor
Hi sally this is whitakerleslie24@gmail and I wanted to respond to Ruth 55 who sent me a message
Response from JamesMichael made on 10th Apr 2022 10:15:12 > @Whitakerleslie24gmailcom
Hi Georgette,

Nice profile!

Good that you're a writer.
Well done!
(I've written some (very very short) stories for kids .....unpublished).

I live in Perth, Australia.

Please feel free to drop me a line should you feel so inclined.

Best wishes,
James
Response from Ariadne made on 23rd Nov 2022 10:54:49 > @Ruth55
Hello Ruth ,as ,I am a tad late in responding ,,, just found this site, Thought I had better check up to see if you have lost interest in pen pals, before I get involved with the verbals
The Ariadne handle is the one I use for my poetry . Proper name is Jacqui
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17th Nov 2022 12:26:54 (Last activity: 17th Nov 2022 13:02:11)
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Kincaid
2nd Nov 2022 19:12:24
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Meeka, you are a voice from the past - 2014 - you could now be head or have climber Everest - are you still there?
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