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Just joined so I'm introducing myself.

I will be 67 next month and retired from the many different jobs in my working life. I guess that I didn’t ever find my calling. I went to university at age 59 but when it was over it was too late to launch a new career. I wanted to lecture but students don’t want to listen to old fogies, so sadly I put aside that idea and settled into life as an eccentric dog owner.

I live in a beautiful Lancashire valley surrounded by hills that demand they be walked/climbed, how could I refuse?

I would like to do a bit of cycle touring but a recent diagnosis of spondylosis and some hip pain means that I may not be doing a world tour anytime soon!

I’m keen to make some friends as I have been on my own for a very long time now, my daughters don’t bother much with me and I don’t have a partner.I didn’t expect to be so isolated at this time in my life, isn’t it strange the way family and friends seem to forget us when we get past 60?

I will pop in regularly and hope to strike up some friendships.


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Cosmos
26th Jan 2017 19:32:23 (Last activity: 27th Jan 2017 08:37:26)
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Hi
I joined today , been retired 7 yrs , had chance to take early release after 37 yrs so decided to take it
I live in Cheshire , enjoy photography , gardening , most types of motor sport , I am a season ticket holder for oulton park race track
Response from Jenninora made on 26th Jan 2017 21:04:08
Welcome Cosmos. Enjoy Silver Surfers.
Response from LCraig made on 27th Jan 2017 08:37:26
Hi Cosmos, welcome & I hope you enjoy Silversurfers. Being a newbie myself I have already started chatting to some very nice people.
dangerman
25th Jan 2017 20:37:18
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I am Dave and 69 years of age and i would like to find friends in my area,i live in Cornwall at a village on the North coast called Porthtowan which is about 7 miles from Truro..
It would be very nice to find friends and be able to go for walks and places of interest locally...so if you live nearby please get in touch it would be great to hear from you..
Charlie 2
25th Jan 2017 11:26:54 (Last activity: 25th Jan 2017 15:30:37)
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Just retired from my business as an Electrician. After being made redundant at 63 I wasn't prepared to sign on so I went back to college to regain my electrical qualifications. Then started my own business now 69 so did a few years. We also moved to a new part of the country then proceeded to extend the house, a real sucker for punishment. Now we go for walks, sit around doing our hobbies and generally enjoy ourselves. Well that is me or should I say us as my wife is looking over my shoulder.
Response from Jenninora made on 25th Jan 2017 11:54:04
Welcome Charlie. Another hobby for you if you surf along with the rest of us. Have fun. I am in Ireland and I enjoy the site.
Response from jeanmark made on 25th Jan 2017 12:46:48
Welcome Charlie.
Response from Charlie 2 made on 25th Jan 2017 15:30:37
Thank you for the welcome.
Findingthetime
25th Jan 2017 08:34:29
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LCraig
25th Jan 2017 08:16:02
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Welcome & I hope you will enjoy it as much as do. Really nice people on here & great information to tap into.
Findingthetime
24th Jan 2017 10:09:08
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Hi to everyone, I've just joined.
After 35 years working 5 days a week in the NHS, I suddenly find myself not at work on Fridays. It's great! I'm making the most of my time by doing stuff, walking, visiting places I've never been to, etc, etc and blogging about it. ( https://kimtimeblog.com/kims-blog/)
Happy to chat
Beachguy
28th Sep 2016 16:34:58 (Last activity: 23rd Jan 2017 10:44:26)
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Just joined and curious about this site and the people on it. I'm 57 and live in the US.
Response from Mortisha63 made on 28th Sep 2016 17:01:41
Welcome to the site . Some lovely people on here .
Response from jeanymay made on 28th Sep 2016 18:36:57
You bring out the best in people Mortisha63
Response from Mortisha63 made on 28th Sep 2016 18:54:39
Thank you jeanymay just like to be positive 🙂
Response from PatF56 made on 29th Sep 2016 01:04:59
Hi Beachguy, I can't answer for anyone else but myself, I have joined silver surfers to make new friends, even chatting online makes you feel less alone, it also makes you realise just how many people are out there alone in the world, I think most of us just want some company even if it's only online company.
Response from sal t made on 23rd Jan 2017 10:44:26
Hi Beachguy I'm also on this site to make friends. I hope we can chat sometime. Sal
Hawk2017
22nd Jan 2017 22:55:49 (Last activity: 23rd Jan 2017 10:33:17)
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Hi everyone...newbie here, old guy, wondering if I am in right place, is this for
USA members or UK only? Looking for USA chat, forums whatever...most are
dating sites and want a bunch of money I cannot spend....just lost my wife to
the grim reaper in Oct '16, so very lonely....no family around. ah well...here I am...
!!!!!!
Response from Jenninora made on 23rd Jan 2017 06:18:08
Hello Hawk2017. Welcome. Based in U.K. BUt cosmopolitan. I only joined a few months ago. I am in Northern Ireland. Some popping up in Silver Surfers in U S A and S Africa . Canada also. Cosmopolitan, really. Sorry to hear about your family position. Do join in with us. You have Community chat , Speaker's corner and a variety of interest.. Look in on what is on offer. Some people introduce themselves and melt away. They possibly link up somewhere.
Response from LCraig made on 23rd Jan 2017 08:58:16
Hi Hawk2017, being a newbie myself, I am fascinated to find people from all over & would love to hear all about you & your world. Hope you enjoy Silversurfers as much as I am & look forward to hearing from you.
Response from sal t made on 23rd Jan 2017 10:17:56
Hi Hawk I'm a newbie too, sorry to hear about your wife. where in America are you? I'm from England but I love America and try to visit at least once a year. Look forward to chatting with you
Response from Hawk2017 made on 23rd Jan 2017 10:33:17
Thanks to all for the welcome!!! It is going to take awhile to find my way around this
site...I woke too early today, need coffee....catch you later....
John Ernst
31st Mar 2016 18:19:21 (Last activity: 23rd Jan 2017 10:32:33)
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Just joined this site after reading about in an article. Now I notice most folks posting live in England. I live in the USA. Is this site primarily English? Otherwise, I am 55 and still working. I enjoy a variety of activities but will hold off until I understand better if I this makes sense.
Response from Silversurfers Editor made on 31st Mar 2016 18:55:08
Hello John ... the majority are our members live in the UK, however, we do have members from around the globe too! You are most welcome to join in 🙂
Response from Carrie12 made on 29th May 2016 00:07:53
John
I noticed that too. I'm in Scotland.
Maybe we have not explored it enough.
Response from Kacilee made on 16th Jun 2016 19:08:09
Hi John, I just joined the other day and I too live in the US, North Carolina. The site came up when I googled senior chat, so I dove right in and joined. I think all of us seniors have more or less the same issues going on in our lives no matter where we live. I am also learning how to navigate the site. As you can tell by my photo, it downloaded too large so I don't know how to fix that. There are probably many Americans here too.
Response from Lindajean123 made on 6th Dec 2016 10:03:26
Hello John...Im finding this site a little confusing...just joined last night...
Hope you are managing ok...Linda
Response from sal t made on 23rd Jan 2017 10:32:33
Hi John. I'm new too, but this site seems very friendly and global. I look forward to chatting with you. Sal
sal t
9th Jan 2017 12:55:11 (Last activity: 23rd Jan 2017 10:21:35)
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Hi everyone on SS I have just joined and thought I would introduce myself. My name is Sal and I live in Northamptonshire, I am not retired, but 2 of us offer lasting power of attorney services and older persons protection after having problems with various family members. I got a little fed up with the inane comments on a lot of facebook so decided to join a more relevant group.
I look forward to making some friends
Response from jeanmark made on 9th Jan 2017 16:00:43
Welcome Sal t.
Response from sal t made on 10th Jan 2017 12:06:16
Thanks Jeanmark that's nice
Response from Wilf made on 15th Jan 2017 20:29:48
Hi Sal hope you are enjoying the site
Response from JohnHerb made on 19th Jan 2017 21:44:26
Hi Sal and welcome . Its a lot better than facebook as there seem to be mostly normal people here and not thousands of people having a rant as they do on facebook. My kids use FB all the time and I shudder with the language etc thats on there! Hope you enjoy meeting new friends here
Response from sal t made on 23rd Jan 2017 10:21:35
Thanks for all the welcomes, I'm still trying to get the hang of the site but I'm enjoying it and looking forward to making lots of new friends.
diewis
22nd Jan 2017 22:08:55
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Rocksinger
10th Jan 2017 17:07:32 (Last activity: 21st Jan 2017 18:17:35)
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I'm very new and wondering what to do next - any ideas!
Response from jeanmark made on 11th Jan 2017 12:45:44
Welcome Rocksinger, I'm sure you will enjoy the site.
Response from Wilf made on 15th Jan 2017 20:29:07
Welcome...did you sing with any great bands?
Response from JohnHerb made on 19th Jan 2017 21:45:57
Welcome Rocksinger and I hope you enjoy it here. What a great name! Reminds me of the greatest singers with the WHo, Queen and of course the Rolling Stones!
Response from LCraig made on 21st Jan 2017 18:17:35
Hi Rocksinger, me too, just a few days in & made contact with a couple of nice ladies. I am looking forward to making new friends & joining in with different subjects & maybe finding a companion for a trip at some stage. Hope you find the site welcoming & informative. Enjoy!
Jenninora
21st Jan 2017 14:42:05 (Last activity: 21st Jan 2017 16:06:41)
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Welcome Botters81. Good thinking. Enjoy the site.
Response from Botters81 made on 21st Jan 2017 16:06:41
Thank you.
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21st Jan 2017 15:23:08 (Last activity: 21st Jan 2017 16:06:04)
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Response from Botters81 made on 21st Jan 2017 16:06:04
Hi fellow newbie. Oh to retire! Few years yet for me but plenty of plans to make in the meantime. Great to think you now have the time to take up a new hobbie. Enjoy.
Botters81
21st Jan 2017 13:27:13 (Last activity: 21st Jan 2017 15:58:06)
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I feel I must take the advice of a colleague who said to me this week, "if you always do what you've always done, you will always get what you've always got". So with those words ringing in my ear I am making my first "change" by making my very first post in a forum.

Hi everyone and look forward to chatting.
Response from Jenninora made on 21st Jan 2017 14:39:40
Welcome Botters81. Good thinking. Enjoy the site.
Response from jeanmark made on 21st Jan 2017 15:27:14
Hi Botters81 and welcome. Hopefully you will find this site and people interesting to talk to.
Response from Botters81 made on 21st Jan 2017 15:58:06
Thank you for the kind welcome. Looking forward to exploring the site.
dangerman
15th Jan 2017 22:28:14 (Last activity: 19th Jan 2017 21:42:44)
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Hi everyone my name is Dave,i am retired after running my own business for quite a number of years.
I live very close to the seaside at Porthtowan which is located on the coast road between Perranporth and Portreath,i am very lucky because there are plenty of lovely views..
Around me there are plenty of beautiful walks and being on the North coast it is normally quite brisk and fresh..
It would be nice to meet other people on silversurfers who like taking a quiet stroll around the cliffs and get some nice fresh air ,,
So if you have any spare time you can get in touch,i will be pleased to hear from you..
my mail address is [email protected]
Response from Jenninora made on 16th Jan 2017 14:09:51
Welcome Dave. You are in a lovely area. I am in Northern Ireland so I also have beautiful walking areas. You may gather up who you can and get rambling.
Response from JohnHerb made on 19th Jan 2017 21:42:44
HI Dave and welcome .We enjoy walking our dogs. Have done a lot of cliff walking down in Devon over the years. Very pretty part of the country
Lanlivery
16th Jan 2017 20:32:47 (Last activity: 19th Jan 2017 21:40:56)
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Hi
I've just joined. I was widowed almost five years ago and promised my husband I would move to be nearer my daughter and her family which I did. I help with the school run and making dinner but the evenings are so so long and I don't sleep much. I have a few acquaintances but no real friends and get very down. Any advice?
Response from JohnHerb made on 19th Jan 2017 21:40:56
Hi Lanlivery, sorry to hear about your sad news. There are lots of very friendly people here on Silversurfers and I enjoy the banter and friendships
Pompeygirl
12th Jan 2017 05:27:20 (Last activity: 19th Jan 2017 21:38:37)
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Hello to all Siver Surfers it's my first post so here goes. My name is Jill and from just outside Portsmouth, been retired now 7 years I have spent much of my time with my granddaughters sharing their growing up while my daughter s at work they are both at school now school runs keep me active. I have joined as I have time during the day to chat especially if you are on your own the day can be long nights to when you are a poor sleeper like me so looking forward to meeting some new friends.
Response from jeanmark made on 12th Jan 2017 14:28:43
Welcome Pompeygirl, there are a lot of interesting people on the site to chat to.
Response from Wilf made on 15th Jan 2017 20:27:43
Hi Lots of lovely people here sure you will enjoy it
Response from Pompeygirl made on 16th Jan 2017 19:07:39
Thanks to you all for your welcome messages. If there's anyone needs to chat to someone please don't hesitate to contact me. Anyone else from Hampshire here.
Response from JohnHerb made on 19th Jan 2017 21:38:37
Hi Nice part of the world. I went to the Festival of Speed some years ago and we took an old Biplane that flew over Portsmouth on a lovely summers day. It was really interesting. I love taking the ferries over to the IOW especially on hot summer days. Welcome to Silversurfers its a nice place to meet others
RhubarbCrumble
2nd Jan 2017 16:36:44 (Last activity: 16th Jan 2017 18:46:35)
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Happy new year to one and all.

New here - 57 and and have taken early retirement. Have moved around a bit over the years as I am originally from the Isle of Wight, but used to work in London and we now live in West Yorkshire so our friends are scattered around the country.

I am happily married - my husband still works.

I am a cheerful and uncomplicated soul so happy to chat away. My interests are cooking, good food, history, industrial archaeology, literature and walks in the Dales and the Lake District.. I also love drinking real ale - particularly from Northern breweries.
Response from jeanmark made on 2nd Jan 2017 19:47:52
Welcome RhubarbCrumble and Happy New Year to you.
Response from Wilf made on 3rd Jan 2017 11:43:04
Happy New Year-RhubardCrumble and a great name! I love the Lake District have not been there for years but my wife has said we need to go for a few days this year walking and enjoying the wonderful scenary
Response from RhubarbCrumble made on 16th Jan 2017 18:46:35
Thank you all for the warm welcome.
Georgie Girl
3rd Jan 2017 11:04:33 (Last activity: 16th Jan 2017 18:45:20)
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Oh to be cheerful and uncomplicated, this was me before life experiences got in the way. Great name though RhubarbCrumble and a warm welcome.
Response from Georgie Girl made on 3rd Jan 2017 13:38:57
Am I? Do I? ha ha, thanks anyway LM
Response from RhubarbCrumble made on 16th Jan 2017 18:45:20
Thank you - one of the definite benefits of getting older is that I find almost nothing worries me these days. I wish I'd known this 30 years ago...
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