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Just joined so I'm introducing myself.

I will be 67 next month and retired from the many different jobs in my working life. I guess that I didn’t ever find my calling. I went to university at age 59 but when it was over it was too late to launch a new career. I wanted to lecture but students don’t want to listen to old fogies, so sadly I put aside that idea and settled into life as an eccentric dog owner.

I live in a beautiful Lancashire valley surrounded by hills that demand they be walked/climbed, how could I refuse?

I would like to do a bit of cycle touring but a recent diagnosis of spondylosis and some hip pain means that I may not be doing a world tour anytime soon!

I’m keen to make some friends as I have been on my own for a very long time now, my daughters don’t bother much with me and I don’t have a partner.I didn’t expect to be so isolated at this time in my life, isn’t it strange the way family and friends seem to forget us when we get past 60?

I will pop in regularly and hope to strike up some friendships.


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gjohnsto
31st Oct 2019 20:45:34
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I am looking for a roommate to take an Emerald Princess cruise from San Pedro, CA thru the Canal to Ft. Lauderdale on January 2. I don't want to pay double so I need someone to share a room.

15 nights, $1,153/person.
GenuineCrystalClear
29th Oct 2019 23:25:53 (Last activity: 30th Oct 2019 12:52:14)
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New to a lot of things. Looking to talk with real, decent, honest people. Topics can vary. Just no politics here.
Response from PatriciaB96 made on 30th Oct 2019 12:52:14
Good afternoon Genuine crystal clear , and welcome to the site, I hope you will make lots of new friends with the same interest as you
CaroB4
22nd Oct 2019 22:52:23
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Hello Edward...I am new too and stumbling my way around as well as yet. Hope you are making connections and getting involved in conversation by now...or starting a new topic perhaps.
AreipW
22nd Oct 2019 12:50:36
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Hello, I’ve just joined the site. As a 63 year old female I would like to try and make new friends with people with similar interests. My particular interests are the environment, animals, museums, art, good food and wine, gardening, music, France, travel, crochet. That’s a start!
Pailbad
18th Oct 2019 12:09:39 (Last activity: 22nd Oct 2019 10:48:14)
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Hi just joined .
I'm currently in the process of retiring and getting some ideas of what to do with my spare time here.
I've been busy at Middleton's getting some fabulously comfy new furniture, an adjustable bed and rise and recline chair, they really know how to look after your needs there and I couldn't be happier with the products I purchased, so now I'm ready to do whatever I want whenever I want, hopefully get the grandchildren more, and improve my golf, go horse racing more, and have cost afternoons in my local.
Roll on retirement.
Response from PatriciaB96 made on 18th Oct 2019 18:12:29
Good afternoon Pailbad welcome to the site, I hope you will make lots of new friends with the same interest as you.
Response from Angel9uk made on 22nd Oct 2019 10:48:14
Hahaha, are you sure that you will ever get out of your comfy new bed and reclining chair to do anything 🙂
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16th Oct 2019 13:51:42 (Last activity: 17th Oct 2019 17:18:29)
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Response from Joe1952 made on 16th Oct 2019 21:19:14
hi Capricorn i'm new also you should just see a reply box at the bottom of this message.
not as daunting as it looks. Joe
Response from PatriciaB96 made on 17th Oct 2019 17:18:29
Good afternoon Capricorn , and welcome to the site, I hope you will make lots of new friends with the same interest as you.
Davidmorcharternet
17th Oct 2019 16:38:20 (Last activity: 17th Oct 2019 17:15:17)
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I'm new to chat rooms and would like converse with new people and share interests.
Response from PatriciaB96 made on 17th Oct 2019 17:15:17
Good afternoon David or chart net , welcome to the site, I hope you will make lots of new friends with the same interest as you. I
Annette54
9th Oct 2019 19:49:00 (Last activity: 16th Oct 2019 16:04:19)
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Hi. I’m new to all this but hoping to make some new friends. I moved to Suffolk area 20 months ago and finding it hard to settle. I don’t know anyone in the area so would be good to find someone who’s in a similar situation to meet up with for coffee or even a walk around the shops or even just a chat.
Response from John7453 made on 10th Oct 2019 15:32:51
Hi Annette and welcome to the site, I hope that you find some friends to chat with on here, I am from the South East of England, John
Response from PatriciaB96 made on 16th Oct 2019 16:04:19
Good afternoon Annette 54 , welcome to the site, I hope you will make lots of new friends with the same interest as you.
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9th Oct 2019 14:31:51 (Last activity: 9th Oct 2019 18:21:22)
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Response from PatriciaB96 made on 9th Oct 2019 18:21:22
Good evening komorebi399 to the site , I hope you will make lots of new friends
Alfred6
4th Oct 2019 22:49:57 (Last activity: 6th Oct 2019 14:41:18)
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Good evening Everyone..I have just signed up here...and hope to make some friends..hopefully !!!..I am just into my 70's,but still alive and well and active..and intend remaining so for a long while yet!!..I live on the south coast now,as I am retired.Was from london,where I worked all my working life...I was a casino manager and also worked the casinos on the cruise liners for a couple of years.If any ladies are interested in writing to me..that would be wonderful indeed..
Regards...Al
Response from Alfred6 made on 6th Oct 2019 01:37:06
Thank you,Trish...though I am finding it somewhat confusing trying to manoeuvre through to where I want to go....Hrrrmph!!!..will get the hang of it somehow!!!.
To ask,where and which casinos have you been to??...My tenure in them was always in Londons' Mayfair region....and YES...the money "dropped" is truly amazing....£1 million a time was the norm at one of the clubs I was at...
If it is not imposing..please tell me more of yourself...and I will do like-wise...should you ask..
Till then....regards..Al
Response from Alfred6 made on 6th Oct 2019 14:41:18
Thank you,dear lady.....xxx
DonnaL71
3rd Oct 2019 07:27:53 (Last activity: 3rd Oct 2019 18:31:53)
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I just celebrated my 60th birthday and find myself lonely for simple conversation! I take care of my 2 grandkids, who are the light of my life. However, I want a life of my own! I love animals, recently lost my Great Dane Aphrodite, and I have one 14 yr old English foxhound. I can't stand people who don't love animals, and stupid people make me so annoyed. I like dogs more than most people. I love men, but I don't look for dates any more because it's too hard to find one that loves dogs like I do. I would love to make friends for conversation though!
Response from PatriciaB96 made on 3rd Oct 2019 18:31:53
Good evening DonnaL71 welcome to the site, I hope you will make lots of new friends with the same interest as you, things can be a bit slow , but you may think it's worth it .
Don5x5
25th Jul 2019 16:17:24 (Last activity: 3rd Oct 2019 07:36:35)
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Good morning everyone, new at this so bare with me. I live in Missouri enjoy the outdoors, lake life especially ! I'm 60 made it this far thankfully. Just thinking about retirement around the corner figured I should try to be more social.
Response from PatriciaB96 made on 25th Jul 2019 18:23:41
Good evening Don5x5 welcome to an intellectual site , I hope you make many friends .
Response from Beauty made on 25th Jul 2019 19:23:31
Way to go, Don5 x 5
Hope the site meets your sociability criteria......
Response from Erinanna made on 27th Jul 2019 09:35:20
I live in San Diego. Just joined in here today. How are you doing?
Response from DonnaL71 made on 3rd Oct 2019 07:36:35
Hi! I need more social too I spend most of my time with my grandkids! Nice to meet you Don
Rosepetal1
1st Oct 2019 01:28:21 (Last activity: 3rd Oct 2019 07:30:54)
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Hello to everyone. I am new to this and by this I mean using a forum so please be kind, I am retired
for about 5 and a transplant to Georgia. (Could not deal with the cold weather and snow any more). Anyway again hello to all.
Response from DonnaL71 made on 3rd Oct 2019 07:30:54
Hi ! I'm new too, looking for some conversation, my 4 legged babies can't talk back
DonnaL71
3rd Oct 2019 07:22:30
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AlisonA7
2nd Oct 2019 08:45:04 (Last activity: 2nd Oct 2019 13:49:08)
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Hi everyone
I’m new here and would like to say hello and am looking forward to meeting new people and enjoying Silversurfers!
Response from PatriciaB96 made on 2nd Oct 2019 13:49:08
Good afternoon Alison A7 welcome to the site , I hope you will make some new friends with the same interest as you.
ProfessorLady
30th Sep 2019 00:36:22 (Last activity: 30th Sep 2019 17:24:59)
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Hello out there. I'm a newbie looking for intelligent conversation. I live in the California desert with my two German Shepherd/Mastiff dogs, am a semi-retired professor, and enjoy the challenges of gardening in a desert environment. Love to cook, enjoy sipping good red wine with company, and gazing at the stars in the dark desert sky.
Response from Beauty made on 30th Sep 2019 17:24:59
Hi 'PL' As we're all going to be subject to global warming, would be interested to hear about your garden. I'm in 'leafy' (so far) Surrey, UK, but who knows what will happen...
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27th Sep 2019 16:32:53 (Last activity: 27th Sep 2019 21:27:32)
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Response from PatriciaB96 made on 27th Sep 2019 21:27:32
Good evening aliuk68 welcome to the site .
MDBV
22nd Sep 2019 22:08:01 (Last activity: 27th Sep 2019 00:30:10)
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Hi my name is Michael I just joined silver surfers I feel like a bit of a old fogey up against all you youngsters . I live in Lincolnshire have two grown up girls and two grandchildren.
Response from PatriciaB96 made on 23rd Sep 2019 18:36:45
Good evening MDBV welcome to the site , I hope you make lots of new friends , with the same I treat as you .
Response from MDBV made on 23rd Sep 2019 20:37:23
Thank you Patricia
Response from shaz1965 made on 27th Sep 2019 00:30:10
Hi Michael Im also new around here. I have three grown children and five grandbabies. Im still getting to know this site and find my way around it.
MoiraC8
21st Sep 2019 17:51:50 (Last activity: 22nd Sep 2019 18:32:11)
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Hi
I'm new too. I'm 66, married and retired since 2013. Looking forward to reading what others are doing and joining in conversations (once I get my head round the site!)
Response from PatriciaB96 made on 22nd Sep 2019 14:23:47
Good afternoon and welcome to the site , I hope you will make lots of new friends here , moiraC8 .
Response from MoiraC8 made on 22nd Sep 2019 18:32:11
Thank you Patricia
Reflective
19th Sep 2019 16:55:56 (Last activity: 19th Sep 2019 18:59:56)
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Hi, I'm also new here....married and retired @ 68. Also looking to read what others are doing.
Response from PatriciaB96 made on 19th Sep 2019 18:59:56
Good evening and welcome to the site , I hope you will like it on here .
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