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Worried about my parent's

My mum had a stroke last year, and has had issues with mobility too since a hip operation. My dad is looking after her. They have always done things together.. Since the stroke, he has been doing more things for my mum. My dad has high blood pressure and has got more anxious. If I suggest a break from my mum, what is he going to do? When my mum was in hospital he didn't know what to do with himself. I'm worried he will crash and burn. Does anybody have any advice?


Created By on 03/10/2024

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CaroleAH
4th Oct 2024 10:52:34
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I agree with Tristy - you should talk to your Dad and see how he feels about the situation. Presumably his GP has got your Dad's blood pressure under control and should also know about your Mum's problems. Has the surgery offered any advice or help? You could ensure that their medication is ordered and, perhaps, delivered if necessary on time and also help with the food shopping so that they have nutritous meals.
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Tristy
4th Oct 2024 07:58:00
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hi, when you say for your dad to have a break from your mum, what do you mean, where do you suggest he go? Who is going to look after your mum ? If your parents have been married a long time then being together is how life is. Perhaps if you organise an outing of some sort for your dad and a carer for your mum that may work , however if your dad isn't too good in health , then maybe he's happy at home. Have you had this conversation with them?
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