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Hi all, Just joined the site a couple of days ago and trying to find my way around. I am lady living in Scotland in a really rural place and hoping to make new friends/penpals. Sbn51


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angelasp58
13th Oct 2023 23:06:17
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Hello. I am from Spain, i just joined and i dont know very well how this site works... . I hope to make new friends around the world
Uglydudeal
8th Oct 2023 22:35:17
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Hello in the states here but hi anyways !
texasman003
18th Sep 2023 00:41:47 (Last activity: 7th Oct 2023 06:27:01)
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hi all texas here Looking for chat
Response from Brendajoycebanksgmailcom made on 29th Sep 2023 07:14:07
I'm in Texas too. Love it. Just started tonight and looking forward to online friendship.
Response from dmartini made on 7th Oct 2023 06:27:01 > @Brendajoycebanksgmailcom
Hi. David from Heathcote. Victoria. Australia. You good?
apinya923
21st Sep 2023 12:12:51
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Hello! I'm new here too I'm from London, Apiny and want to meet some new people. Please say hello to me
Deepeg
17th Aug 2023 01:25:13 (Last activity: 14th Sep 2023 11:24:20)
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Hi folks.. brand new here. Joined because I have no real life friends and living alone since my husband left... .. it's a very lonely life.. I'm in Herts would love it if there's anyone else in the same situation who would like to be pals..
Response from Burnished bronze made on 18th Aug 2023 12:21:40
hi ☺️ just wanted to say it's a bit confusing site but if you want to have more private talk one to one use the chat icon hopefully this helps
Response from Kazara made on 28th Aug 2023 00:17:11
Hii Deepeg: Just found this site and am trying to forge some friendships online. It has been difficult to keep in touch or make any new friends with Covid for the past two years. My daughter used to live with me, but she has moved up to Seattle, and I am in Southern Oregon by myself. Of course, I have six cats to keep me company, but their conversational aptitude leaves me a bit under stimulated!
I ride horses, have cats, and live alone. I love all animals. We used to have whippets, but they have all passed on and with six cats and being 76, I am reluctant to get any more animals. I also have two horses and haven't been able to ride for a couple of years due to medical issues etc.
It would be lovely to hear from you as I am finding living alone as an elderly person with Covid coming back yet again, quite a bit challenging to keep my spirits up. It would be very nice to find a few people to chat with online, since chatting in person seems to be too difficult with Covid rearing it's ugly head yet again.
Hope to hear from you and hope things are going well for you. Don't know where Herts is, so please at least let me know that so I will learn something new!! 🙂
Thanks, Kazara
Response from BJAX made on 12th Sep 2023 22:17:39 > @Kazara
Hey I am new on the site and trying to connect with people. If you want to chat let me know
Response from quietlady53 made on 12th Sep 2023 23:06:32 > @BJAX
Hi BJAX-
How are you? Where are you from? Please tell me a little more about yourself.
Response from GEEZER made on 13th Sep 2023 07:59:04
Hi Deepeg
Where in Herts are you I used to live in Hemel Hempstead
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Response from Deepeg made on 14th Sep 2023 11:23:24 > @BJAX
Hi Bjax... hope you're well.
Response from Deepeg made on 14th Sep 2023 11:24:20 > @GEEZER
Hi Geezer, East Herts... ... the very other side of the county from Hemel Hempstead
GEEZER
13th Sep 2023 07:50:25
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Hi
I have just joined so I'm finding my way around I live in Stanford Le Hope.
I'm up for a chat anytime I'm online
quietlady53
12th Sep 2023 23:13:24
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Hi- was widowed 19 months ago. Understand how devastating it is. Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss.
quietlady53
12th Sep 2023 23:11:25
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Hi Bill-
Also new here and love to travel. Would love to hear about your trip.
Dixie84
2nd Sep 2023 03:52:27 (Last activity: 12th Sep 2023 21:54:29)
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Good evening. I’m Dixie from the state of Texas in the U.S. I would love to talk with a male in his 60’s if possible.
Response from origamighost made on 5th Sep 2023 14:17:22
Hi sweet Dixie you are not alone and if I can I will help you to understand this better through meditation and breathwork to reacha a more liminal stae where you can access your god given divinity without the societal blockages.
Response from BJAX made on 12th Sep 2023 21:54:29
Hello Dixie, I just joined. I am from Chicago. My son lives in Texas
BJAX
12th Sep 2023 21:51:53
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Greetings I am new, just signed on.
origamighost
5th Sep 2023 14:12:34
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I presently reside in Tucson, so I can care for my 83-year-old mother. My father is 87 and a very lonely, manipulative desperate man who I will not be. I find the care of our elders here in America is disgraceful, for starters. Our allopathic medical system is a complete failure in my eyes and what ever I can do to care for and help not brainwash them from the health system I try my best. Fully acknowledging the wonderful medical treatments and care we provide in general but is lost amongst the geriatric population.
Shelli
18th Aug 2023 00:58:53 (Last activity: 31st Aug 2023 12:42:15)
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Hello! I'm new too. I'm from the States, Deepeg, but I hope you find a great pal or two nearby. Just thought I'd say hi. It's no fun being lonely . . . .
Shelli
Response from Kazara made on 27th Aug 2023 23:58:38
Hi Shelli: I know I am late to the discussion, but trying to make friends myself. Seems as though this site is not well traveled or used, but I will leave you a message just in case.
I am in the States, Oregon, to be exact. It's difficult with Covid and being over 70 to make new friends. I was doing great until Covid came along and the need to isolate so much to keep from getting Covid. I had hoped that Covid would settle down after this past year, but it appears a new strain is infiltrating the US now, ahead of the new batch of Covid shots.
I am not sure where Deepeg is, but I am in Southern Oregon. It's very hot down here, especially this time of the year and fires are raging it seems everywhere close by, but thankfully, not right where I am! I am an animal lover, have two horses and six cats, lost our whippet last year and miss her terribly.
So I am here just looking for people to talk with. Since Covid it seems socialization has taken a nose dive and I spend an awful lot of time home alone with my cats. And while I love them dearly, they don't completely take the place of talking with another human! 🙂
Hope you are doing well and that I may hear from you. It's been awhile since you posted, but thought I would try.
Kazara
Response from Shelli made on 31st Aug 2023 12:42:15 > @Kazara
Hello, Kazara. Thank you for your reply! I am actually not from Deepeg - that is the name of someone I was trying to reply to on this site. (It’s a bit confusing at first, haha! I didn’t reply correctly, so it appeared as a post.)
I’m sorry you’re lonely! That’s no fun! Isolation can be hard, even with adorable pets, like you have.
I’m off to Italy in a few days — I’m so glad the temperatures have started to come down.
Praying those fires in your area have died down.
Kazara
28th Aug 2023 00:29:31
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Hi New Member in Scotland! I am now a new member months after you joined, so don't know if you still peruse this site or not, but thought I would try. I am in the USA in the state of Oregon, the southern part. It gets very hot down here during the Summers and early Fall, and there are usually lots of fires. We have been extremely fortunate that although we had a bad fire two years ago that obliterated most of the town, My house and neighbors were not touched and we were able to move back home. The fear is of a repeat performance, as what is happening seemingly all over the USA decimating so many homes and killing people. But then, worldwide disasters seem to be on the agenda for this planet. 🙁
I have never been to Scotland but I expect it is beautiful. I would love to hear from you and about where you live and what you do over there. I do not live in a big city but we are fairly crowded with open territory to the east and west of where I live being right in the middle of a mountain range.
I am an animal person, having six cats, two horses, and recently lost my last whippet. I absolutely love animals of all kinds. I think I would go absolutely stark raving mad without my animals. I am a pretty introverted person and animals help me to not be completely alone. Of course, they are now congratulating around me letting me know it is their dinner time!! So, I guess I had better get to my job.
Anyway, would love to hear from you and be friends, especially since I have never been able to visit Scotland! It would be nice to hear all about your weather, politics and life in Scotland.
Hope to hear from you Sbn51.
Kazara
BrendaL10
14th Aug 2023 17:04:12 (Last activity: 28th Aug 2023 00:10:05)
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Hello Everyone! I am brand new from just a minute ago! Interested in chatting and making new friends! I am from Ohio!
Response from Kazara made on 28th Aug 2023 00:10:05
Hi BrendaL10! I recently found this site and thought I would try to get in touch with some of the people who have responded looking for friends. I am in need of some new friends because the epidemic of Covid has really put a damper on my social life and happiness. I luckily have not had Covid, but curtailing my outings has certainly put a damper on my happiness and social life.
I am in Southern Oregon in the US, grew up in Southern Illinois. My favorite place to have lived was Seattle, but I have been in Southern Oregon for the past 8 years. I don't like it here very much as the climate has become so much hotter with a lot of fires and evacuations. Thank goodness, the fire came within a block of my house, but other than severe heat, my house is still standing. I have been very fortunate.
How are things where you are in Ohio? I am originally from Southern Illinois, then Seattle, and I only wish I were back in Seattle. Other than over crowding, which seems to be going on everywhere, I loved living in Seattle. Southern Oregon was nice for the first couple of years, but as the climate heats up, it's pretty scary down here because of so many fires.
Well, if you still check this site out and are interested, please write back. I would love to make a few friends online around the country and learn about what is going on elsewhere.
Thanks, Kazara
Shelli
18th Aug 2023 01:02:00 (Last activity: 28th Aug 2023 00:03:21)
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Oops -- my previous comment was intended as a Reply to Deepeg, not as a general comment! (I'm new here . . . still figuring out the system.)
Response from Kazara made on 28th Aug 2023 00:03:21
Hi Shelli: I am new here and trying to instigate a discussion with someone. Just looking back over the most recent comments and trying to respond to see if I can get a response. I am not too familiar with this site or how it works, but thought I would try.
I am not sure where you are, but I am in the US in Southern Oregon. I am overwhelmed with the natural disasters taking place all over the world, and especially in the US. So many people have lost their homes and everything they own, including many of their lives. It certainly is a very stressful time on this planet nearly everywhere at one time or another.
So, it would be nice to have a few friends to chat with about the weather and other things going on in our lives. Let me know if you get this and would like to communicate online.
Look forward to hearing from you!
Kazara
Farkhandah
11th Aug 2023 15:39:51
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Hi,

I also love gardening and nature. I also love to listen to music and talk about music. If you're happy then we can chat and be friends (Durham).

Kind regards,
Farkhandah
Farkhandah
11th Aug 2023 15:33:38
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Hi,

I also recently joined the forum. I'm living in Durham at the moment. I would be happy to become your friend.


Cheers,
Farkhandah
FELINEFRIEND
2nd Aug 2023 17:06:20
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Hi I'm Ann , I've been on here for about 12 months now,I live in West Midlands ,I wondered if there were any middle aged married ladies on here who would enjoy going out for occasional coffee and chat or a coach day trip local to Walsall or Cannock area ,got various interests like nature pets , gardening and travel very easy going thanks
kilmeny
1st Aug 2023 18:14:07
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hi there, just read your post not sure how this forum works yet but thought i'd send a message to see if i manage to reach you. i too have moved to a new area but not so rural i do know that it feels isolating at first but it depends what you like doing and you can be lonely in a city having lived in london for over twenty years i know that's true. i like to chat but don't mind being on my own. having said that i've had a little rescue dog for 15 years and sadly she died two months ago so i do miss her company and walks each day. i did think of getting another dog or cat as i've always lived with animals but i think for the time being i'll wait as it does mean i can go on holiday whenever without having to worry about what to do about pets. i hope you enjoy your new home and if this message reaches you do get in touch.
BillCarey
21st Jun 2023 19:54:01 (Last activity: 31st Jul 2023 17:19:32)
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Hello all, I just joined in hopes of finding friends for chat and potential longer term friendships. I love listening to music, mostly live and traveling. Just got back from Zion NP in Utah which was amazing. If you like to travel would love to hear your memories. And don't forget to include your favorite musical experience.
Response from Dakota813 made on 31st Jul 2023 17:19:32
Sounds, like a great trip, I am also in the US. Haven't travel
much in the past year. On a ranch with horses and dogs. Waiting on
another mare to foal. Keeps me close to home, for now.
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