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Just joined so I'm introducing myself.

I will be 67 next month and retired from the many different jobs in my working life. I guess that I didn’t ever find my calling. I went to university at age 59 but when it was over it was too late to launch a new career. I wanted to lecture but students don’t want to listen to old fogies, so sadly I put aside that idea and settled into life as an eccentric dog owner.

I live in a beautiful Lancashire valley surrounded by hills that demand they be walked/climbed, how could I refuse?

I would like to do a bit of cycle touring but a recent diagnosis of spondylosis and some hip pain means that I may not be doing a world tour anytime soon!

I’m keen to make some friends as I have been on my own for a very long time now, my daughters don’t bother much with me and I don’t have a partner.I didn’t expect to be so isolated at this time in my life, isn’t it strange the way family and friends seem to forget us when we get past 60?

I will pop in regularly and hope to strike up some friendships.


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Beauty
2nd Jan 2019 18:54:39 (Last activity: 2nd Jan 2019 19:06:50)
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Hi John 7453
I'm based in Surrey.....depends where your S.E. is located..... All the best for 2019. 'Beauty'
Response from Beauty made on 2nd Jan 2019 19:06:50
Hi NorthernChris
Love your reply.... Once you're down in the S.E. there's not too much further South to go, before the Channel. All the best to you for 2019. X
John7453
2nd Jan 2019 18:40:09
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Hi, are there any new members on here from the South East? Thanks, John
JoanD8
2nd Jan 2019 16:39:03
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Hi everyone
I am a very keen painter. I love sketching and my New Year resolution is to try and sketch something everyday.
We have just has a very busy New Year so feeling a bit shattered but will get going on the resolution soon.
Any other members who love art? It would be good to swap hints, tips and so on.
Beauty
2nd Jan 2019 14:37:38
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Hi Lanlivery
Belated Happy New Year to you. Don't feel too sad, just think of the promise of 2019...Hope things improve for you. Kind regards Beauty
JulesEd
1st Jan 2019 19:27:39 (Last activity: 1st Jan 2019 20:16:03)
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Hi everyone. I have quite literally just joined as soon have no idea if I'm doing this correctly - nothing new in that! I'm 63, just semi retired and living in Buckinghamshire. I'd love to get to chat with people, assuming I can find my way back!
Response from Janb27 made on 1st Jan 2019 20:11:56
Hi, I am newish too, I haven’t really managed to find my way around. I thought it would be a good place to chat, but most of the post I come across are very old.
Response from SilverBlue made on 1st Jan 2019 20:16:03
Hi and welcome to the site
Lanlivery
31st Dec 2018 22:27:41 (Last activity: 1st Jan 2019 20:15:39)
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Anyone else out there alone for the first time on New Year's Eve. I've been with my family at Christmas but due to a recent fall can't travel to stay with anyone and am feeling weepy and lost.
Response from Janb27 made on 1st Jan 2019 20:15:39
I am not alone, but feel like I am. We are all expected to celebrate new year. I always find it a sad time when I reflect on the years I have wasted and the things I haven’t done. Do they have chat rooms in here? Would be good to get a nice cheery group chat going
Jan
KathyT43
20th Dec 2018 09:21:27 (Last activity: 27th Dec 2018 22:26:40)
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Hi. Just discovered this site. I am 67. I have had a fairly traumatic few years and niw things have settled down I need to branch out with new interests and new friends.
I have 3 grandchildren under 2, play the Ukulele and am fairly active having just lost over 3 stone. Yaaay!!
Response from CaroleAH made on 20th Dec 2018 10:01:07
Hi Kathy, welcome to Silversurfers. Hope you soon find your way round the site and start commenting on topics which interest you. Brilliant weight loss - you must be thrilled to bits. Have a super Christmas! 🙂
Response from Glynooski made on 27th Dec 2018 22:26:40
Hi kathyt43,well done with your weight loss,you must tell me how you did it , I bet your grandchildren are good exercise too and keep you on your toes,have a great start to the year
SuzanneT1
27th Dec 2018 09:33:40 (Last activity: 27th Dec 2018 19:49:41)
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Hi I’m Suzanne new to the forum.
I’m looking to make new friends as I have recently become single as my partner left one week before Christmas
This year has been tough and I look forward to the new year beginning
I live in Essex and work in London I’m 56 I have no children
Hope to hear from some new friends soon
Response from Beauty made on 27th Dec 2018 19:49:41
Hi SuzanneT1.
Sorry to hear about your 'loss'....because that's what it is.....except it's not recognised as a 'bereavement'. People just expect you to 'get over it', as you will, when you're ready...
Hope you receive supportive replies on here......When it happened to me.....my lovely Mum (long departed) indicated that I was worthy of better relationships......
Hope you can believe....
All the best 'Beauty'
NeilW59
23rd Dec 2018 17:41:23
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Hi I'm Neil, I'm new here, just a little bit about myself. I live in St Helens, I'm a loving honest guy, I have a crazy sense of humour, anyone feel free to ask anything about me, I'll answer no matter what it is
SharonF47
22nd Dec 2018 21:19:48
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Hi everyone, i’ve Just found this site and i’m Looking forward to joining in with conversations. I’m 59, but 60 is fast approaching. I’m married to Dave, we recently celebrated our 41st wedding anniversary and I don’t know where the years have gone! We have two sons and two daughters and 5 amazing grandchildren, the youngest will soon be 4 months old. I live in Somerset and I love to knit, walk, socialise and i’m Also very interested in the paranormal, in fact i’m A Spirituaist medium and I’m interested in many spiritual and personal development subjects. Both my husband and I have been on a health and fitness regime and between us we have lost over 10 stone!!!
I look forward to participating in this interesting site. Wishing you all a very Happy Christmas & New Year, xx
Beauty
21st Dec 2018 17:57:30
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Hi AngieP
It's the time of year.....don't stress it... It will pass, as my luvly Mum would have said. All the best going forward & festive wishes to you & yours. Beauty
KathyT43
21st Dec 2018 08:28:50
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Thank you CarolAH and Northern.
angiep
21st Dec 2018 05:09:33
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Hi just started using this site again. I'm 66 have 2 grown-up sons a granddaughter and a grandson. I'm retired and remarried 4 years ago and very happy. We have recently bought a static caravan on North Wales coast. Somehow I feel something is missing or could it be Christmas blues
PaulA81
19th Dec 2018 21:26:01 (Last activity: 20th Dec 2018 09:57:42)
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Hi everybody, I am Paul, I am 61 - 62 in January and look forward to being part of this wonderful group
Response from CaroleAH made on 20th Dec 2018 09:57:42
Hi Paul, welcome to Silversurfers. Hope you find lots of topics on the Forum which interest you. We are a friendly crowd! If you click on the white arrow which is in a turquoise box on the right hand side of your screen you will be able to see if anyone has added a comment to a subject which you have contributed to or if you have any chat messages.
Beauty
17th Dec 2018 18:50:21 (Last activity: 19th Dec 2018 22:03:35)
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Just seen Bluebird's post.....Sadly, we don't always have the family we deserve -one way & another... Need to cut our parents and children loads of 'slack'....life isn't easy....and we all make loads of mistakes.
Merry Christmas everyone...
Response from Beauty made on 19th Dec 2018 22:03:35
Oh dear, think I may have misconstrued.....mea culpa/apologies (or not)/..We're all human and at this time of year - glad tidings to all.
Dorsetlad
18th Dec 2018 09:14:30 (Last activity: 18th Dec 2018 18:56:18)
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Hi from a newbie in Dorset,

Looking forward to making new friends and getting tips, advice and help maybe along the way. Merry Xmas everyone.

Dorsetlad
Response from Beauty made on 18th Dec 2018 18:56:18
Hi Dorsetlad
Welcome to...all of us. Hope you make loads of friends on here. All the best & festive greetings. Beauty
RedBrook
5th Oct 2018 11:04:18 (Last activity: 18th Dec 2018 09:30:36)
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Hi there, just joined so thought I'd say hello! I live on the South Coast and having become single after a traumatic few years I have recently moved into a flat on my own. I work part time designing posters for musicians/theatres/events and creating greetings cards from my own photographs. I love hopping on the train to Brighton for a gig or theatre or popping on the bus for an outing but am just as happy staying home and watching Strictly with a friend! I enjoy gentle yoga ... Oh and I recently jumped out of a plane (attached to a parachutist!) to raise money for Cancer Research UK.
Response from Dorsetlad made on 18th Dec 2018 09:30:36
Well done on the jump, mad but a great cause to do something like that. I am new here and looking to see what people do in their lives & that's a great start to read.

Dorsetlad
Christiana
18th Dec 2018 06:42:18
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Happy Christmas everyone what's everyone doing for Xmas and New Year?
ChristineB592
17th Dec 2018 19:25:54
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Hi there, I’ve just joined. I live in Bournemouth and work as a relief lollipop lady. My hobbies are photography and writing. I’m also learning tai chi and I enjoy that. My church is The Salvation Army.
Carolp2018
16th Dec 2018 19:41:44 (Last activity: 17th Dec 2018 13:38:00)
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Hi, I've just joined Silversurfers after reading a post from a friend on Facebook. I have lived in Oxfordshire for the past 12 after travelling the world working and accompanying my husband. I have family who live far away and I don't see much. I think it's because I wasn't around when they needed me that we are not close. I regret that, but not the wonderful adventures I've had. I'm looking forward to the interesting discussions on this site.
Response from Beauty made on 17th Dec 2018 09:58:33
Hi Carolp
Welcome to Silver Surfers. Whereabouts in Oxon are you? I was born & grew up in Oxford itself, before leaving for the big City aged 18. Sounds like you've led an interesting life...at the end of which you have many memories.
Look forward to hearing more from you...
Festive greetings....
Regards Beauty
Response from Beauty made on 17th Dec 2018 13:38:00
Hi Northern
Just seen your post to Carolp and thought I'd send a welcome message to you. My lovely Mum came from the N.E. - very friendly, down to earth folks....Hope you receive replies from nearer to you. I'm in Surrey and would love to chat...and if you're ever down this way, let me know.
Regards & Xmas greetings
Beauty
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