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Just joined so I'm introducing myself.

I will be 67 next month and retired from the many different jobs in my working life. I guess that I didn’t ever find my calling. I went to university at age 59 but when it was over it was too late to launch a new career. I wanted to lecture but students don’t want to listen to old fogies, so sadly I put aside that idea and settled into life as an eccentric dog owner.

I live in a beautiful Lancashire valley surrounded by hills that demand they be walked/climbed, how could I refuse?

I would like to do a bit of cycle touring but a recent diagnosis of spondylosis and some hip pain means that I may not be doing a world tour anytime soon!

I’m keen to make some friends as I have been on my own for a very long time now, my daughters don’t bother much with me and I don’t have a partner.I didn’t expect to be so isolated at this time in my life, isn’t it strange the way family and friends seem to forget us when we get past 60?

I will pop in regularly and hope to strike up some friendships.


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Marielis
6th Mar 2019 08:30:50
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Hi all!
Just joined today! Site seems interesting!
Hope all is well with everyone!
SueB412
1st Mar 2019 09:48:33 (Last activity: 1st Mar 2019 14:52:02)
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Fairly new here, been dabbling around for a while. But now getting the hang of things, and I can say that Silversurfers is quickly becoming my go to site, it's like a big friendly magazine always available, everyday a new bit and last but not least its free!
Response from CaroleAH made on 1st Mar 2019 10:11:05
Hi SueB, glad to hear that you are enjoying the site. I agree with your sentiments and have found lots of friends on here and so many topics in the forum that are interesting.
Response from SueB412 made on 1st Mar 2019 10:35:24
I think I will be mainly in the books, gardening areas. Also health, I have M. E and had to retire from my job as a teaching assistant,so anything to do with health is good. Food, I like that too! Travel, that's nice. Ha ha most places really. Oh and I really like the Silver Smiles.
Response from Beauty made on 1st Mar 2019 14:52:02
Hi SueB
Welcome to all of us & pleased that you've found all the different topics. Any health issue is a worry, but once you can discuss it with others, it can be reassuring.
Hope you have fun on here.
Kcfamilyconnections
1st Mar 2019 05:44:26 (Last activity: 1st Mar 2019 10:25:55)
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Hello there! Just new here, dropped in to say hi, and reach out to others and offer them a listening ear. I am blessed with 8 kids and 5 grand kids with one on the way. I live in Kansas-kind of flat lol. But the roller coaster called Life provides the mountains and valleys:) Please share about yourselves. Is anyone here from the US or did I somehow find the tunnel to the UK?
Response from CaroleAH made on 1st Mar 2019 10:25:55
Hi KC - think you have found the tunnel, which is great and I know that there are other people on this site from the USA. Hope you enjoy looking at all the topics in the forum and commenting on things which interest you. If you are a photographer it would be lovely to see some photos of your country on the Showcase. I have to admit that my knowledge of American geography is abysmal so I have Googled Kansas and think that you are more or less in the middle of the country. I live in Yorkshire which is the largest county in England. Wow, eight children - life must have been pretty hectic for you and now you have five grandchildren who, I'm sure, bring you lots of joy. Will look forward to seeing more comments from you in the forum! Carole
Miriam666
23rd Feb 2019 18:16:48 (Last activity: 1st Mar 2019 05:48:51)
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Hi my name is Miriam and im 70. Its hard to believe where the years have gone! I was a mod in the 60's and still have an active interest in fashion and music. I love travelling around the world and would love to share experiences.
I have been divorced for many years and have a son and daughter and 3 beautiful grandchildren who are a big part of my life as we are all really close.
I have always been drawn to the more spiritual side of life although i have no interest in any organised religion except perhaps buddhism.
My ethnic background is mainly celtic ( welsh/irish).
Thats what my Dna test said anyway lol
Response from Beauty made on 28th Feb 2019 16:39:59
Hi Miriam
Just read your profile. Not sure where you're located? Haven't had a DNA test done yet....just hope I'm human. All the best
Response from Kcfamilyconnections made on 1st Mar 2019 05:48:51
Hi, Miriam! Great to know about your travelling experiences. I would love to hear your stories. Yes, Kids are a lot of fun and require a huge sense of humor. But the grand kids make it all better right?

I am an unashamed Christ follower who stumbles a lot so I probably don't need a DNA test to know I am very human like Beauty said:)
themole
27th Feb 2019 23:03:38 (Last activity: 28th Feb 2019 16:37:57)
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Hi joined last week but looks like I joined today. Website is too fussy so I’m afraid as the dragons say “I’m out”. Hope everyone enjoys the website but it’s not for me x
Response from Beauty made on 28th Feb 2019 16:37:57
Hi 'themole'
Love your pic...Pity you didn't stay on here. However, have to say you're right....not the easiest sight to navigate. All the best. Beauty
Miriam666
23rd Feb 2019 17:51:26
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Hi My name is Miriam and i live in west london uk. ive just joined the forum today. Im sorry you feel so isolated. Id love to chat to you on this forum and share life experiences
Raygcox50
22nd Feb 2019 23:13:10
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Hi just joined soon to be turning 51 looking to chat make new friends
LIGHTERMAN
17th Feb 2019 19:58:20 (Last activity: 17th Feb 2019 20:41:02)
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NEW BE TRYING TO ACCESS CHAT NO SUCCESS
Response from Beauty made on 17th Feb 2019 20:41:02
Hi Lighterman
Hope you're able to talk with like minded people on here. All the best
Beauty
17th Feb 2019 18:57:59 (Last activity: 17th Feb 2019 20:10:03)
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Hi Shels1
Great to hear from you.... Site takes some getting used to, but loads of interests to contact. You're located far from me (S.E.), but if you're ever down this way, please let me know. All the best
Response from Shels1 made on 17th Feb 2019 20:02:54
Thank you Beauty! If you ever fancy coming to Edinburgh, let me know. x
Response from Beauty made on 17th Feb 2019 20:10:03
hi Shels
Visited Edinburgh with my mum back in 96....beautiful place.....Thanks for reply. X
Dodgerer
14th Feb 2019 16:59:09 (Last activity: 17th Feb 2019 19:09:35)
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Hi Neil from deepest Essex. 53 years old, does that make me a silver surfer?? Just finding my way round here, any tips will be appreciated.
Response from Beauty made on 17th Feb 2019 19:09:35
Hi Dodgerer/Neil
Are you a silver surfer.....if so, hope you enjoy. Many interesting topics to join in and we're all very friendly.
Shels1
15th Feb 2019 09:33:41 (Last activity: 15th Feb 2019 23:36:19)
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I'm from the States, but have been in Scotland for 26 years. Raised my family here and now have 4 grand girls. Just turned 60 and want to make some new friends. I'm widowed, but my youngest son still stays with me. And I have a cat. I love walking, staying healthy, and I am still working. Finding my way around this site. It's packed with information and interesting things to explore. I enjoy photography and gardening so that's a good start!
Response from Shels1 made on 15th Feb 2019 23:36:19
Thank you Northern. I'm enjoying it already!
MargaretG05
26th Jan 2019 11:48:54 (Last activity: 15th Feb 2019 09:25:23)
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Hello all, I'm Margaret and have just recently moved to Shropshire from Bedford..
I am a retired accountant, last position in a private girls boarding and day school.
I was born and brought up in Fife ,Scotland and still visit often to see my family and friends.
I hope to find lots of interesting topics to join in and discuss
Response from LeonardM8 made on 26th Jan 2019 15:59:43
Hi Margaret, I think you will find lots of subjects on this site to join into, and if you don't ? just start one, we will join in. Len
Response from MargaretG05 made on 27th Jan 2019 09:31:33
Thank you for welcoming me x
Response from Shels1 made on 15th Feb 2019 09:25:23
First Fifer I've run into on this site. I stay in Fife. Not a Fifer originally though. Born and raised in the States. Been in Scotland for 26 years.
NatalieL6
14th Feb 2019 12:33:45 (Last activity: 14th Feb 2019 18:56:09)
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Hi. I'm Natalie 56, but very young at heart. Just joined and live in the North East. Am a full time carer to my adult daughters so feel a bit isolated. I don't have any family or friends up here but hope that changes soon.
Response from NatalieL6 made on 14th Feb 2019 18:00:10
Hi NorthernChris. Due to ill health myself I am unable to do the sports which I used to enjoy so I do read a lot. I enjoy reading lots of genre but generally crime/murder mystery/war. Not keen on chic lit. Just bought Les Miserable as enjoyed the BBC adaptation. I love watching rugby union especially the Allblacks. I also love watching tennis, gymnastics. I used to love going on holiday too but haven't been able to do that for a while. Hopefully will at some stage. Love Newcastle by the way!
Response from NatalieL6 made on 14th Feb 2019 18:56:09
Thank you for the welcome Northern. I'm finding it a bit overwhelming to start but I am sure I will find my way. Its a big step for me as my confidence has taken a battering but onwards and upwards as the saying goes!
~Kelly~
11th Feb 2019 17:43:14 (Last activity: 12th Feb 2019 14:31:50)
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Good afternoon, my name is Kelly, I'm 55 and brand new here! Hope to meet lots of new friends!
Response from reevej made on 11th Feb 2019 18:15:43
Hi Kelly,I'm Jen, 68 , from the N.E. and just joined a week ago .
Response from Beauty made on 12th Feb 2019 14:31:50
Hi Kelly
Not sure where you're from, but welcome to the site. Many friendly people on here, so hope you find loads' of contacts. All the best
Imadilley
12th Feb 2019 03:19:52 (Last activity: 12th Feb 2019 14:28:29)
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Hello all! I’m 73 f from Hawaii. Looking to strike up some new friendships and stimulation conversations. Would love to make a new chat friend. Glad to be here. THanks!
Response from Beauty made on 12th Feb 2019 14:28:29
Hi Imadilley
Great to hear from you....How's life in Hawaii....visited once a very long time ago....it rained...All the best.
Beauty
12th Feb 2019 12:44:22
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Hi Karen

Welcome to.....all of us. I'm located a long way from you, but always happy to chat.
Kind regards
sweenytodd
10th Feb 2019 16:12:55
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hi ive just joined so don't realy know what to do next...im from Essex,but I was born in south London.
jeff53
9th Feb 2019 12:44:51 (Last activity: 9th Feb 2019 21:14:55)
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just joined on the forum i live in Kent hope to find my way around very soon.
Response from SilverBlue made on 9th Feb 2019 15:29:05
Hello and Welcome Jeff, site is a bit of a mine field to get around but the surfers are friendly, join in with the topics that interest you.
Response from Beauty made on 9th Feb 2019 21:14:55
Hi Jeff
Welcome to all of us.....hope you have fun and make good friends on here. All the best.
Beauty
5th Feb 2019 18:35:33
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Hi PMD
Not sure where you're located....? Anyway, lots of friendly folk on here to chat to. It's difficult when you're first widowed, but it will become easier...hope it happens for you. All the best. Beauty
PMD
5th Feb 2019 09:21:28
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Hi - just joining as feeling a bit lonely lately. I have a family but they are very busy with their own lives which is what you want for them. My husband died eight years ago and have lost really close friends too. Keeping busy walking and part time teaching but would love to chat or meet up for theatre or social events. Enjoy outdoors, reading, tv, food etc. Would love to chat.
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