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Hello - looking for like minded friends to chat with

Hey, just new to the group, I’m 50, female, and new to a town where I know no one... just looking for people to chat to


Created By on 07/09/2020

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Steffiegal
14th Sep 2024 23:08:41
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Hi Rhyll.....how does one pronounce that name? is it welsh (just wondered)...or does your husband or old friends have a shortened version like..."oi you or thingy" HAHAHAHAHA.....no sorry, that made to me. I hope you're not too sensible but if you are you can just give me the bums rush......heeeeee....
Suzz1
14th Sep 2024 01:49:25 (Last activity: 14th Sep 2024 11:57:51)
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Dennis,
I’m sorry to hear about your wife passing. It can be a very difficult situation to navigate. I am 69 and have been divorced for 4 years after a marriage of 46 years.
I’m lucky my 2 daughters live in town. Six grandchildren keep me running, especially the 3 year old.
Knee surgery for me on September 19, my daughter is staying with me to help.
I try to stay busy, water aerobics and a little flower gardening, but sometimes it isn’t enough.
Life is too short to let yourself be unhappy.
I’m around most days, especially while convalescing. I’d be glad to chat with you.
Response from Dennis71 made on 14th Sep 2024 11:57:51
Hi Suzz1,

Thank you for writing. Good luck with your knee surgery. Are you getting a knee replacement? My brothers have both had knee replacement surgery, and two sisters in law as well. They recovered well, and are glad they did it. My hip replacement went well also. I had it done at the VA Hospital in Omaha (I’m a retired US Army soldier).

Getting old is not for the faint of heart. I spent yesterday cleaning out the she-shed. Painting the concrete floor of the she-shed was the last project Alisa planned. She bought the paint in summer 2022, but didn’t feel well enough to do it. This should have clued me in that something was wrong, but it didn’t. She never started a project without finishing it. On January 25, 2023 she was diagnosed with stage four pancreatic cancer. She died on March 4, 2023…five days before her 62nd birthday. We were married 25 years. I promised her I would care for our kitties Star and Luna, so my life these days revolves around them.

I hope your surgery goes well. The 19th—next Thursday— I’ll be thinking about you.

Dennis
TyneAngel
13th Sep 2024 19:15:48
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Hello Rhyll, I moved to a town where I knew no-one apart from my daughter and family almost 3 years ago and it has been ,,,,,, challenging..... Would you like to chat? Best wishes\#
feekay
12th Sep 2024 10:57:56
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Hi Rhyll, am new here too 58 and female, recently moved to the Borders in Scotland. Looking for friends and penfriends. Nice to meet you.
Steffiegal
25th Aug 2024 22:49:10 (Last activity: 12th Sep 2024 02:12:22)
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how would we know if we're like-minded....time will tell I guess...
Response from Minka made on 12th Sep 2024 02:12:22
Hi
I am new too . Trying to make friends . My family all live in the Uk but I am in Canada . Lost my husband of over 30 years three years ago . Have a lovely news partner but get lonely at times
I have lots of interests in life and keep super busy so that helps
I adore cats lol
Anyway hello and Welcome
Nikkisue
3rd Sep 2024 03:56:34 (Last activity: 7th Sep 2024 20:26:54)
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Hello,
Response from Bassmankyu made on 7th Sep 2024 20:26:54
Hi there, have been off the site for a couple of weeks cruising the Mediterranean, Welcome to chat anytime.
vfr1200
10th Oct 2020 15:30:08 (Last activity: 31st Aug 2024 15:30:41)
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Happy Saturday!
It's gone very cold today. Doesn@t encourage a lot of outdoor activity. A cosy cafe, coffee and a cake seems a good option.
Response from Amaus made on 31st Aug 2024 15:30:41
Coffee cuppa and cake can certainly lift the spirits!
blastfromthepast
9th Sep 2020 12:08:35 (Last activity: 31st Aug 2024 15:27:29)
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Just the same as you thought i would give this a try and see if anyone talk, i live in stockport.
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Response from blastfromthepast made on 9th Sep 2020 14:20:04
I am new to this sort of thing are there any members in the northwest area
Response from Amaus made on 31st Aug 2024 15:27:29 > @blastfromthepast
I am in north west area in middle of triangle of Liverpool, Chester and Manchester.
Dannyboy11
27th Aug 2024 00:32:31
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I'm 54, male living in Berkshire UK. I spend many evenings wanting to chat to like minded people. My thoughts range from world corporate greed to selfish humankind. I still feel optimistic though.
Anabloom
24th Aug 2024 20:41:01 (Last activity: 25th Aug 2024 22:50:15)
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Hi 🙂 I'd love to make friends, I don't really have friends. I'm a woman, please be kind to me ♡
Response from Sonej679 made on 25th Aug 2024 21:03:39
Hello,

I'm new here too. I'd like make new friends. Where are you from?
Response from Steffiegal made on 25th Aug 2024 22:50:15 > @Sonej679
please be kind to me...hahahaha that's funny...
Siah
17th Jun 2024 19:21:35 (Last activity: 24th Aug 2024 14:05:26)
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I am also looking for new friends I am tired of been lonely
Response from Shahni02 made on 16th Aug 2024 07:07:15
Hi Sia
Me too, I am 70 years old writing from Napa, CA. I hope we can chat and find common ground to establish a friendship.
Cheers
Shahni
Response from Sonej679 made on 24th Aug 2024 14:05:26
Hi Sia,

I'm new to this group, the same as you I'm looking to make new friends as I'm recently divorced and finding it lonely.
excellarrat
23rd Apr 2024 00:23:11 (Last activity: 16th Aug 2024 07:12:18)
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Hi I am from California right in the middle of the wine country.
Response from Zoologist made on 23rd Apr 2024 21:13:04
What's the best wine produced in the region?
Response from Shahni02 made on 16th Aug 2024 07:12:18
I am 70 years old from Napa
sundoll
16th May 2024 20:57:55 (Last activity: 16th Aug 2024 07:11:13)
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Hi from sunny CA, USA. I am new today also. Female 80 and live with my grandson (28 yr old) who is disabled and has been living with me for 10 years. Since I don't get out much I am looking for friends to chat with.
Response from Shahni02 made on 16th Aug 2024 07:11:13
Hi
I am 70 years old. I live alone with my husband. I am in Napa, CA I would like to chat with you.
Cheers
Doggyvonne
14th Aug 2024 12:02:52
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Hello I would like to get to know a similar lady over 55 in my area of Exeter who wants company on morning bike trips along the Exeter quay.
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20th Jul 2024 17:10:39 (Last activity: 2nd Aug 2024 23:26:24)
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Response from Persimone made on 2nd Aug 2024 10:35:43
That sounds right up my street.
Response from Bassmankyu made on 2nd Aug 2024 23:26:24 > @Persimone
Hi Persimone

Is it because as we get older we just wish we were younger, I would love to do the things we did when we were young but we know our bodies can`t hack it anymore, even if our minds think we can. there is one thing i do know is that we are not following our parents generation in the pipe and slipper brigade though.
JavaJeff
22nd Jun 2024 04:21:52 (Last activity: 26th Jul 2024 22:01:07)
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Greetings from Virginia
Response from Maureensu made on 18th Jul 2024 14:28:07
hey Jeff. hope you're faring good on here?
Response from eyipey43gmailcom made on 25th Jul 2024 09:15:57
I would like to meet a man who is sincere, caring, responsible, who likes to stay active and who is in love with life.
Response from JavaJeff made on 26th Jul 2024 22:01:07 > @Maureensu
I'm thinking not a lot of folks seem to really use this? How are you doing?
excellarrat
23rd Apr 2024 00:19:16 (Last activity: 25th Jul 2024 14:52:13)
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Hello
Response from BarryIOW made on 27th Apr 2024 11:07:16
Hi - how are you doing?
Response from PlatinumLady2024 made on 28th Apr 2024 19:23:20
Excellarrat, a wonderful "Hello" from Manchester, UK! Today (Sunday) we have had sunshine, blue skies albeit a little colder than expected with a good breeze.

After deliberating for a few weeks I finally decided to join this site, so far so good. How is it you have found yourself here?
Response from Browneyes63 made on 10th May 2024 23:22:04 > @BarryIOW
yes
Response from Mountainhomer made on 7th Jul 2024 05:26:25 > @PlatinumLady2024
Good evening from Park City, Utah. I just wanted to say hello and bid good tidings. I found myself here thinking it nice to chat with someone.
Response from Rainy21 made on 25th Jul 2024 14:52:13 > @Mountainhomer
Hello I’m in north west uk ! Would Lov to chat
Rainy21
25th Jul 2024 14:49:54
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eyipey43gmailcom
25th Jul 2024 09:13:38
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Would be nice to meet friends who share the same values of honesty and integrity. Character is more important to me than looks that fade. Will share pics once we start chatting. Best to start just chatting for common interests and go from there. I prefer NOT to be friends with married men.

To love and be loved...if this resonates with you, let's chat.
Anastatia57
20th Jul 2024 11:59:28
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Hi Rhyll how are you doing it must be a bit daunting for you at the minute moving to a new place especially not knowing anyone feel free to drop a line and I am here if you would like to chat take care 🙂
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